Teddy Roosevelt once said, “Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don’t have the strength.” Throughout the whole novel of The Things They Carried, there are continuous examples of courage and what courage means to different soldiers. Tim O’Brien, the author of The Things They Carried, tells multiple war stories throughout the novel all with different morals. However, one thing that all of these war stories have in common is that each displays an example of great courage. One war story that we read about in the novel, is the story of Norman Bowker and Kiowa. In the chapter, “Speaking of Courage” we learn about Norman Bowker’s life after he returned home from war and his stories of what happened while in war. …show more content…
After Norman Bowker returned home from war he wanted to tell people his stories, but he was afraid people didn’t want to listen to them. He especially wanted to tell his family about what happened, but his father was uninterested because he was disappointed that Norman didn’t win the Silver Star metal. While on a drive around town, Norman Bowker tells us the story that he wanted to tell his father, the story of how he almost won the Silver Star. He explains how he was stationed with Kiowa. Kiowa was described through the novel as a simple, kind guy, who went to Church, he was also described as the Alpha Company's therapist or emotional compass. An example of how Kiowa was an emotional compass for the group, is when Tim O’Brien killed a man and was having a hard time with cooping. “Think it over,’ Kiowa said. Then later he said, ‘Tim it’s a war. The guy wasn’t Heidi–he had a weapon, right? It’s a tough thing, for sure, but you got to cut out that staring” (O’Brien 120). Norman continues by describing the accident that happened that night. He explains how there was an explosion that went over and made …show more content…
For Teddy Roosevelt’s quote from earlier, his definition of courage is going to keep going when you don’t have the strength to do so. Tim O’Brien describes courage as a complex of emotion that is not always easy to understand. My personal opinion of what courage is and what it means to me, is to do something “heroic” that someone goes out of their way to do. An example of this would be, if you’re driving around and you see a family of ducks trying to cross the street. Instead of just driving past them, if you were to get out and stop traffic so the family of ducks could cross I would consider that
While O'Brien is introspective and reflective, Bowker is more outwardly focused and struggles to find meaning in his experiences. Bowker is haunted by the death of his friend Kiowa, and he feels guilty for not being able to save him. He
Kiowa was mentioned in the book as someone who had not in particular been affected by the war. He was diligent and hardworking, but O’Biran also portrayed him as a humble character.
Bowker had felt immense guilt for the Kiowa's death, in the chapter " Speaking of Courage” Bowker imagined how he would tell his father the story of his medals and how he almost won the silver medal but blew it when he let Kiowa sink into the muck. In “Speaking of Courage” Bowker is driving around the lake on the fourth of July in his father's Chevy where he realizes he has nowhere to go. He is reminiscing about his high school girlfriend, sally Kramer and the medals he earned while in the war but is still stuck on the silver star medal he almost got. In the next chapter, “Notes,” O’Brien says that “Speaking of Courage” was written at the request of Bowker.
In Speaking of Courage, it focuses on Norman Bowker, a Vietnam war veteran who feels alienated and isolated from his hometown after the war. In the quote "'How'd you like to hear about the war?' he might have asked, but the place could only blink and shrug."(143) It shows how Norman can not fit in with the people in his hometown anymore, as his interests are vastly different from the civilians in the town. This means there aren't any good topics that he shares in common with anymore else as the only people who understand him are his fellow soldiers from Vietnam.
His suicide due to guilt is a common result of war. Norman Bowker stands for all of the soldiers who committed suicide due to guilt from the war. Just like Mary Anne and Linda, Norman Bowker starts out as a young and innocent boy. However, the war ends his life just as it does to countless
Norman Bowker is a character throughout the story that has the overwhelming struggle in confronting and accepting the bitter realities of war, with his actions during it echoes with him. Holding the truth of the death of those around him and the overall trauma-inducing environment of Vietnam eventually led Bowker to develop post-traumatic stress disorder, being completely unable to integrate back into society. It is seen in Bowker’s character that the truth of war severely affected his mental state and perspective, as the remains of guilt and remorse resulted in his untimely suicide by hanging (O’Brien 99). Mary Anne Bell is also a very accurate example. Being represented in the novel as a symbol of peace and innocence, it is soon developed that the truth of war slowly transforms her as she becomes completely immersed in the reality of war around her.
Norman Bowker, could never find anyone who would listed to the real story of what happened. He had been brave and won many metals. Not even his father would listen to the true stories. He felt left behind and alone, ultimately committing suicide. These men needed to tell the stories.
These repeated thoughts and actions that O'Brien has Norman Bowker do gives insight into Norman Bowker's constant reflection for memories. And how memory is often very reflective and carrying of guilt as Norman carries these memories which hold his guilt for Kiowa’s
However the trauma is not escapable for the soldiers of war. The sudden death Kiowa causes Norman Bowker so much emotional pain, he unfortunately ends his life. Norman feels overwhelmed with guilt due to what happened in war, “Norman Bowker, who three years later hanged himself… That night when Kiowa got wasted, I sort of sank down into the sewage with him… The letter covered seventeen pages, its tone jumping from self-pity to angry to irony to guilt” (149-150). O’Brien uses the idea of the tone jumping to show how Norman felt all different emotions and did not know where to place the blame.
Kiowa knows it is wrong to bring war into a place of peace. With this peace of mind, it shows how good of a person Kiowa is. It showed why people like him as a person. In a like manner, O’Brien discusses morality in the chapter “The Man I Killed.”
Within Tim O’Brien’s novel, each character has a different idea as to what courage truly means. In the short story “On The Rainy River,” Tim faces the moral decision of whether or not to join the war. Being the stubborn man he is, Tim believes he is too good for the war, all the while opposing war in his liberal nature. He faces a dilemma in which he can either flee to Canada and evade the war, or accept his draft notice and go to war. This is illustrated as Tim states “Right then,
Seven. Count ‘em. You weren’t a coward either” (136). Norman’s conversation that he plays out in his head with his father, demonstrates how veterans from previous wars or more traditional people have had a different experience in the war compared to current or more recently deployed veterans, so they have different opinions on the war. Norman Bowker feels that his father would not hear what he was trying to say about being brave or
These are all examples of how Norman Bowker had changed throughout the story. He went from being innocent, or without war on his mind ever, to having nothing else to say to anyone if it didn’t involve war. After he had came back from war, he was not able to keep a job, he was not able to keep a conversation going with anyone because no one knew what he was going through. He was also suffering from PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) which in the long run, made him feel as if no one would understand him or his story because no one else was in war when he was and no one experienced what he
Kiowa later comes back and informed O’Brien that it was a real war, and he had no alternative. Through this, it is clear that Kiowa acted as a calming presence for the killer O’Brien. It seems like he was trying to remind him that it is not like he killed the man without a discrete reason. In fact, war changes the real definition of murder. However, the fact that Kiowa also kept coming back to O’Brien signifies that he was not only trying to help him, but he was also uncomfortable and disturbed by the death as
Returning home from war is never an easy transition for a soldier, no soldier embodied that truth more than Norman Bowker. Bowker is a Vietnam War veteran from the novel The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brien who struggles with his life and mental health after the Vietnam War. Bowker is troubled by his memories- most specifically one memory- that he cannot forget or forgive himself for. Bowker was a man who had to fight for his life every day he was in Vietnam, there was always a chance the Viet Cong would attack. Bowker lost friends and lost fellow soldiers every day in Vietnam, he even lost his best friend to the war.