Addiction comes in many forms and effects the person, and the people around them in many ways. Unfortunately, we find addiction in our own homes, in homes across the United States, and the world. Drug addiction and alcohol are addictions that most people are familiar with, but there many addictions that the family suffer from. To understand what the family goes through when there is an addiction, we must understand what addiction means, what the cost of the addiction ultimately does to the family, the financial stresses, what treatment looks like for the addict and the family, and what happens to the children.
Addiction is a disease that is compulsive and difficult to control which could result in harmful consequences. Most drugs affect the
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These roles would be the addict, the hero, the mascot, the lost child, the scapegoat, and the care taker. Each of these roles play an important role in the family. For example, that according to the Learning Circle, the member of the family that is the hero, is someone who needs to make the family look good, ignore the problem (the addict), and present things in a most positive manner. The most damaging role in the addicted family would be the lost child because the damage that the addict has done to the family or the type of abuse that was or wasn’t present in the family will stay with the children for the rest of their lives. Even some children may turn to a lifestyle similar to the present addict in the family as an escape from all the pain in their reality. The role of the lost child is silent, which means that he or she will never mention recovery. The lost child will also give up their own self needs and avoid conversation about the other roles of the family, either be good or bad. The child may feel a sense of loneliness and neglect since the basic family functions are centered at the addict; the child’s needs will never be met since the physical drug has a high importance in the family, whatever the child needs will be forgotten or pushed to the side. According to Addiction Solutions of South Florida, about 50-80% neglect and child abuse is the result of the parent or …show more content…
Addiction has destroyed families as much as it has to the individual. The family plays many distinct roles when it comes to addiction. It is a promising idea to avoid name calling and passing judgment onto the addict once the addiction is present. Even though this may be a tough time for the both of you, but by supporting and encouraging the addict to seek treatment, both the addict and the family members can go live happy and productive. Most people don’t understand why or how some people, other than themselves, become addicted to drugs, alcohol, gambling, shopping and even sex (National Institute on Drug Abuse) Often, people will mistakenly think that the people who are taking substance drugs or even drinking heavily, that those people lack moral principles or are willingly choosing to not stop their drug supply. Researchers have found that the use of drugs and alcohol, changes our brain chemistry. Which makes quitting harder and withdrawal almost unbearable to stand. The real damage comes into play if there are children involved in the family. Children are like sponges, the absorb everything. When they do get involved, the children may be more subjected to emotional, physical, and even sexual abuse. Addiction can be treated with therapy and counseling. There are counselors who specialize in the treatment of addiction who will help the family recognize that the recovery of their loved one is a
Codependency and Substance Use When it comes to substance abuse, codependency refers to the obvious and harmful emotional participation of a person in the life of an addict (Drug Addiction Treatment, 2010). These people tend to ignore, deny, justify, and empower the addict. Codependents often feel responsible for the addict’s actions, feelings, thoughts, well-being, lack of well-being, and even their fate.
After reading Scott Russell Sanders', "Under the Influence", it got me thinking, if these were examples from his past life growing up with an alcoholic as a father and how it effects his life now, what are the effects does it have on other adults who grew up with an addictive parent? After reading one article I found that most children who grew up in alcoholic homes reported significantly less utilization of interpersonal resources as a child, also had reported more emotional and psychological problems in adulthood and had significantly more family disruptions characterized by higher divorce rate, premature prenatal and sibling death. Some of the children had experianced more physical and sexual abuse and more frequently become alcoholics or
As long as people have access to illegal and dangerous substances, American will continue to have issues with substance abuse. If you have fallen victim to the insidious disease of addiction, it is incumbent on you and perhaps your family members to become aware of all that could potentially go wrong with extended substance abuse. It 's also important for you and perhaps your family members to know help is out there and available. In Louisiana, there is a number of drug and alcohol treatment centers located in interesting communities.
Addictions – this could mean that a child or young person may live and grow up in a household where the parents or carers may be into drugs and alcohol abuse, not only will this cause financial problems for the family as people that are addicts usually put their addiction before other needs which means they will normally neglect the child and their needs. Someone that is addicted to substance abuse or alcohol abuse and caring for a child are unable to provide a stable, loving, caring and safe environment for that child. Being a child or young person in this environment they will usually try to take on a much higher role within the household then they should be to try and care for the family, this can be any younger siblings they may have as well as the parents.
However, unfortunately, without counseling or coaching most partners, children, family members and friends believe they are responsible for or cause another person's addiction and addictive behavior; thus avoiding the issue of their own enabling
EXTRACTS FROM OAIW addiction is a family affair feeling disempowered resentments+ Ref & CHK In Original file 1. is feelings of disempowerment, resentment, anger and other negative emotions reflected in this environment give examples and references 1.Living with an alcoholic often evokes a range of negative emotions among family members. The challenging circumstances, disrupted dynamics, and effects of alcohol addiction can contribute to feelings of disempowerment, resentment, anger, and other emotional struggles. Here are some examples and references that highlight these negative emotions in such environments: 2 Living with an alcoholic can indeed evoke a range of negative emotions, including feelings of disempowerment, resentment, anger,
An addict’s behavior is beyond their control but, if those around them help with small support on a daily basis it may enlighten them to recover. One way to show support toward the addict, is by spending time to talk to them without any judgments. Addicts would then feel more open to discuss their situation without feeling guilty. This allows them to have insight on their own behaviors and gain trust from their families and friends. Moreover, the next time they feel a mental impulse they will be more likely to think before taking on a negative
Children who group up seeing a parent addicted to drugs or alcohol are more likely to develop SUDs in their childhood. Addiction in teens can affect families also. Many teens that deal with addiction eventually end up running away from home, this puts other family members in emotional distress, they find it unable to focus when doing simple daily activities because they are worrying about them. Financially, drug abuse takes a toll on families. It cost a lot of money to get a family member into a rehab facility and cover the costs for medical needs and other
It causes people to develop an addiction, leads to overdose, and it causes them to loss of control. Addiction is an unfortunate side effect of using drugs. Many people become addicted to drugs over a course of time. Addiction isn’t something that happens instantly. Addiction does not only affect the person who’s
“Addiction And Its Effect On The Family Unit” THIS PLAY IS DEDICATED TO, INSPIRED BY TRISCA JACKSON CHARACTERS: Grandmother: Sally Ann Johnson Single Mother: Terry Johnson Four children: 1. Malik Johnson 2. Sumona Johnson 3. Belinda Johnson 4. Terry Johnson Children’s Father: Billy “Pipe” Henderson Children’s Step Father: Michael LaForte
The tone of the group leader was calming and encouraging; his voice felt reassuring and affirming that ultimately empowering by simply sharing his stories. The open format felt genuine in nature and the group appeared cohesive. Reoccurring themes for most speakers were difficulties in identifying their feelings, perceive themselves as completely unselfish and dedicated to the well-being of others. Listening to others sharing their struggles, I began to access my life and codependent tendency that I may exhibit.
Addiction is the number one cause of death in the US. Addiction can run in the family and be passed down through genes. Generally, that’s how addiction starts but it can start by recreational use, and then turn into something far more serious. In order to break the addiction, there is a 12 step program to follow, but one must be willing to admit there is a problem. Recovery is hard, but it is possible to maintain.
Being a teen with already addicted to drugs may not realize the problems they are causing until they are out on the streets when it’s too late and think they don’t need help. Also in the article it discusses how when the drug addict is unable to brace the program, they get yelled at and get talked down to so they feel as if why bother? It’s basically up to you to the person who wants to change and wants to quit but for some it’s so much more difficult than that. The rehab facilities and or treatment centers are setting you up to fail and then wonder why so many relapse over and over where one day they die from an overdose. There are many other treatments available but when you need to qualify for it, it’s another issue.
People who abuse any of these drugs have a higher probability to the exposure of HIV, viral hepatitis and other infectious agents through contact with infected blood or body fluids 7 that results from sharing contaminated syringes or engaging in unprotected sexual contact with an infected person. Apart from that, drug abuse makes the liver works harder in order to break down the poison that ingested or absorbed into the bloodstreams and filter toxins so that the body can absorb the healthy nutrients that remain. This possibly can cause significant damage to the liver as well as liver
Addiction is the reliance on a routine. There are many addictive stages. Addiction, as it comes along, becomes a way of life. The persistent use of the substance causes to the user serious physical or psychological problems and dysfunctions in major areas of his or her life. The drug user continues to use substances and the compulsive behavior despite the harmful consequences, and tries to systematically avoid responsibility and reality, while he or she tends to isolate himself/herself from others because of guilt and pain (Angres, & Bettinardi-Angres, 2008).