The phrase “through pain, comes discipline” may sound strange or even unorthodox to the average person, but to someone who has stepped on the yellow footprints at Parris Island, they might beg to differ. It was an intense first night on the island to say the least; about 60 of us or so packed on a small bus that was well over capacity, and the fear could be sensed in us all. I remember the long silence finally being broken by a drill instructor’s polite words to “get the hell off his bus”, after those kind words were said we all did in fact get off of his bus; where I was greeted by the humid and cool November air of South Carolina; to this day I can still smell the swamps that surround the Island. They say that anyone who does decide to step on those yellow footprints fall under one of two categories: those that are “crazy brave” and those that are “phony tough”. In hindsight I can safely say that I was the latter of the two, but there was a lesson to be learned on that island for everyone there, and for me it was a lesson in humility. …show more content…
Little did I know this thought would cross my mind quite a bit over the next three months. It wasn’t an “oh my god, this is too hard” kind of thought, but more of a “why are we doing it this way? There’s an easier way to do this’ kind of thought. More or less it frustrated me how much the military carries the “that’s the way it’s been, so that’s the way it’ll always be” kind of approach to things. Not that it’s a bad concept, but it frustrated me to no end. However, I did eventually learn to conform, and stop being an individual, after all there is no “I” in
Before leaving California as a replacement, Sledge never realized that he was just going to be “cannon fodder”. However, Sledge knows (as he did so himself) that people will do whatever it takes to defend his or her country. Throughout the memoir, Sledge often talked about “esprit de corps” and how that moral helped him and his comrades through the war. They respected, trusted, and depended on each other with their entire lives. When a person was wounded and in enemy fire, marines would come and carry them away on stretchers.
It takes a strongminded person to be able to deal with the harsh realities of the battlefield, as well as having someone there who is willing to walk through it too. Many troops fail to make it through training in Georgia; some who serve in Normandy
Until the soldiers can live without worrying about their survival, they cannot focus on their personal growth and
This reason is causing me to re-enlist because the harder we work for something, the more precious it becomes. I know that sitting at home is not working, therefore I
In today’s society the general attitude towards an individual is conform or be an outcast. It is seen in schools where people who do not fit into specific cliques become outcasts, the weird people. It is seen in the work place as well. People have conformed to standards set by society simply because society has said to do so. Society asks people to change themselves to fit in.
If nobody changed who they were to conform to the masses, individuality wouldn't be met with fear, but understanding. We should always strive to do act in life because it makes us happy, not because it pleases
We find in many of the stories that the soldiers mentioned are haunted by the feelings of “guilt and shame”. These feeling seem to make them do irrational and crazy things. In the short story, “The Dentist”, by Tim O’Brien, we find Curt Lemon, taken over by shame for his fear of being seen and treated by the war dentist. Upon his first initial visit to the dentist, he had fainted. To prove to himself and the other soldiers that he is a “real brave man”, he returned to the dentist in the middle of the night and demanded that the dentist remove a tooth, even though he had no problems with his teeth (62-64) Later a story is told of Norman Bowker who hung himself because he could not get over the same feeling of shame that he felt for not having
Leaving the military may have been the best and worst decision I have made during my life. The financial stress that has come from not having a job is almost more than I can handle. Adjusting to this new non-institutionalized life is very different than what I have become used to. Not being told how to do this or that every day is one change I enjoy. One of the outcomes of leaving the military that I dislike is not having a paycheck every two weeks.
In the memoir Unbroken, Laura Hillenbrand and Louie Zamperini show that having a determined mindset can help get through the horrors of POW camps. The POW camp Louie was in was terrible. He would get beaten everyday for no reason and be forced to do hard labor. The author uses words such as “broken”, “fractured, and “shattered” and paired them with the word “POW” to show that the Japanese soldiers had no mercy against the American soldiers. Throughout the POW camp terrible things happen to Louie and he is forced to see horrible events.
Because of this, a lot of soldiers have gotten sent home because they aren’t gonna be able to fight in battle.
This quote also showed the readers that soldiers mentally have to go through a lot of
Some chronic problems happened to come back from past wars and continued to test the people in positions of power on their ability to prove if they have truly learned from those who made the decisions before them. One of those repeat offenders is the always present problem with the downsizing of the military in times of peace rendering it incapable to
Even if it’s big or small, don't change who you are to fit in. The traits that you changed are what makes you unique and will help you later in life. Stick up for who you are, being different is a strength us it to your
In Cady’s case, this is exactly what happened. Cady changed her appearance and overall behavior to fit in with The Plastics to avoid being rejected in her new environment. What was a deciding factor in her conformity was the realization that The Plastics were the representation of the popular and favorable in-group at North Shore. Although this principle of conformity results in public compliance with the group’s ideas and behaviors, it does not always result in private acceptance of the same ideas and behaviors [Social Psychology, 2014].
I realized that there was nothing wrong with me. I didn’t need to try and fit in with everyone else. Everyone is different and everyone has their own story. No one is exactly the same. If people did everything the same way and looked exactly the same, then the world would be a boring place.