“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the f*** on” (Tupac Shakur). People, who play the guessing game on why certain injuries, emotional or physical, happen, tend to hold negative feelings for their own situation. These individuals should strive to correspond with the aphorism to, “Write injuries in dust, benefits in marble”. An individual living by this aphorism should consider their injuries in their past, and they should come back from those injuries stronger than they were, continue to strive towards their successes, and let go of their past failures and hold on to their silver linings. Some people say that not all …show more content…
The key to moving on is to keep a straight head and not let anything veer you from the path you have created. Imagine, you're about to fall off of a cliff. You have a backpack that is filled with your emotional and physical pain, and it is weighing you down. You are about to lose grip and fall, and the only way you can hold on is to let go of the backpack. Are you going to let those pains take you down or are you going to leave them behind and survive. Individuals need to realize that by holding on to regrets, it will drag them down until their face is against the pavement. Once one realizes that a lifestyle of regret is not a life to live, they will persevere and proceed to continue on the correct path towards the right life for them. People tend to take directions as to what path is the correct path solely based upon the situations happening around them. These people must not dread. Dreading will lead you nowhere but down the track of despair. You need to be able to strive towards one main objective and create a path that will support you towards the objective you
If it is unobtainable, make it obtainable. If your goals are too difficult to reach, that's okay, just make them more manageable. If everything has been tried in order to achieve a certain goal but still no cigar, just devalue whatever it is and forget about it. In a nutshell, this is what Stanford professor Bernard Roth preaches in the first chapter of his book The Achievement Habit. In order to persuade his audience, Roth utilizes rhetorical appeals such as: logos, ethos, a and pathos, but does so rather ineffectually .
Regret also changes people’s life. Everybody has done something they regret doing. Maybe they do not know what is it or they do not want to admit it but everybody has at least regretted something once.
The number one thing I’ve learned in this entire process is that the only way anyone can rise from the ashes and make something out of the debris that is their life is to change themselves. I’m not talking about changing your zip code, or rearranging your face or other body parts. I’m talking about digging deep, looking within and taking responsibility and accountability for your own mess. For me, I had to accept that I should have never married my husband; I knew he wasn’t the man for me. I have to accept that I was impulsive and emotional and didn’t plan or prepare for my next step after telling my husband I was done.
Having to move on from something can be very challenging. It could be from a relationship, a career, or the past. Many people are scared of moving on because they are not sure what they are going to do afterward. This is the main topic that Andrew Brininstool talks about in his short story, “Portrait of a Backup.” However, the main question he wants the reader to reflect upon is if a person should be scared of moving on with their life.
Scott Dinsmore first shared that the worst career advice he received from a friend was to not worry about how he likes the work he’s doing right now, and use that time to build his resume. Dinsmore describe his framework of success as a compass that must possess unique strengths, values, and experiences. Individuals first must become self-expert and know themselves and what they really want. This will lead to their discovery of unique strengths. Individuals then need to find their values, whether it may be family values or health values.
“Tuesday’s With Morrie” Aphorism Analysis Once there was a man who stole another man’s prized possessions out of spite. His entire life he felt regret for the wrong he’d done. However, when someone had mistreated him, he refused to show forgiveness. I’m not saying I believe in ‘karma’, but I strongly think that if the thief had only forgiven himself for what he’d done, he could have easily forgiven the one who had done him wrong.
The third one is to aim high. The fourth one is to use your creativity, this can be the most important one. The fifth and last one is stay open to complexity. It is important to not be single-minded because it will help you succeed. Powerlessness is a hard thing but it can also be a source of change-making strength because usually when you have no power you want to make a change
The solution was to work hard to achieve your goal and make it work through adversity and
The dictionary defines Regret as “feel sad, disappointed over” but, the short stories The Scarlet Ibis and The Sound Of Thunder give it a new meaning. Regret accomplishes nothing, it only brings you down more than you have ever been. The Scarlet Ibis shows regret when Doodle’s brother teaches him to walk. Also, The Sound Of Thunder it shows regret when Eckles wants to hunt big game. Often times we regret things that we do But have an irreversible effect.
Letting go may hurt, but holding on is worse Toxic relationships, unfortunate friendships, and ethnic differences are all examples of negative experiences. Situations like these happen every day but knowing how to take it and deal with it can really affect someone. For this reason, the most important thing about growing up is learning to let go of dismissive times, past or present. Recovering from an incident can happen quickly, while for others it can take what seems like an eternity. For example in “The Perfect Murder” Doug, the main character, suddenly gets overwhelmed about his past.
Reserve your anxiety for what you are escaping to.” This quote says that it should not matter what you are leaving that you should be more worried about the next chapter in your life that you are going to. Be prepare to encounter more struggles then what you left in order to make your life better for yourself. Another one is “We have the idea that our hearts, once broken, scar over with an indestructible tissue that prevents their ever breaking again in quite the same place...” we in today’s society deal with heartbreak quite often, which is very sad to say.
Dread is not knowing, it's was by all accounts the most exceedingly awful to Eleanor, she portrays dread to be "The immense crippler." (Roosevelt 49) Yet you should have the strength to vanquish fear with self-restraint. The more prominent the dread there comes expanded certainty and quality. "You pick up quality, boldness, and certainty by each involvement in which you truly stop to look fear in the face."
I want to face every challenge head on, with disregard to the fear and doubt accompanied by the possibility failure. To instead know that yes, I will fail, many times, but with each surpassing of a milestone I will improve and make better mistakes. With challenges comes in inevitably of failure, but with failure comes the inevitability of improvement and