The Unfit Wells Parents The Glass Castle, written by Jeannette Walls, is a memoir that details the author's upbringing in a dysfunctional and impoverished household. The parents, Rex and Rose Mary Walls, conduct themselves as neglectful and irresponsible caregivers who consistently prioritize their own needs and desires over those of their children. Rex and Rose Mary's actions and behaviors have long-term effects of their neglect on the development and well-being of their children. Rex displays traits of alcoholism and neglectfulness, while Rose Mary unrealistically dreams and lacks responsibility for her actions. Although some view Rex and Rose Mary to have unique parenting styles that supplement their children's successes, the Walls children …show more content…
They hold unhealthy ideologies that no kid can thrive in. After burning themselves, being pushed out of moving vehicles, burning themselves again, and becoming subjects of sexual assault multiple times, these children never experience true nurture and healing of their pain. The parents have a ‘big kids don’t cry’ attitude which is not a lifestyle young kids thrive in. Jeanette’s issues are shot down especially by her mother. When she informs her mom her Uncle Stanley was touching her and “...playing with himself”, Rose Mary sympathizes with Uncle Stanley’s loneliness and tells Lori, “If you don’t think you’re hurt, then you aren’t” (Walls 184). Telling a child this demonstrates extremely neglectful parenting because in order for children to grow, they need consolement, not to be told to ‘suck it up’. Allowing another person to engage in any indecent, immoral, or illegal behavior in front of the child that could undermine or jeopardize the child's morals (“NJ.law”) is child abuse. Since Rose Mary knows Uncle Stanley touched Lori and himself and disregards this as no big deal, she jeopardizes Lori’s young morals which causes future trauma in children. Despite Rex and Rose Mary not partaking in the sexual abuse of their children, their ignorance to the issue is equally as detrimental to the …show more content…
The Walls children must grow up at a younger age than most because of their parents abandonment and neglect. When one's father or mother leaves for days, weeks, or months on end, or is present but not supervising, endangerment of the children increases. At an immature age of only three years old, Lori was standing on a chair in front of their stove when she bent over to pick up a hot dog with a fork. Momentarily, she felt heat on her side when she realized she was on fire and it spread up to her face (Walls 9). After a few days of hospital care, while Jeanette was not fully healed, her dad told her they are checking out “Rex-Walls style” (Walls 14). He ran out with her and upon arrival home, Jeanette once again cooked herself hotdogs because “...no one else was there to fix them for [her]” (Walls 15). Rex and Rose Mary fail to supervise their three-year-old, fail to allow her the extensive hospital care she needs, and after completely scorching herself with third degree burns, allowing her to cook hotdogs again at home without supervision is extremely endangering. This demonstrates the style of uninvolved parenting. “[Uninvolved parents] fulfill the child’s basic needs while generally remaining detached from their child’s life” (Sanvictores and Mendez). Although Rex and Rose Mary provide a roof over their children's heads or supply them with life-sustaining food, they are not present. They leave their
However her father Rex Walls was an alright father to all four of his kids due to him educating them on how to protect themselves from danger, inspiring them with the dream of the Glass Castle, and assisting Jeannette with her education in college, but due to him constantly disappearing for days on
The memoir, The Glass Castle, written by Jeannette Walls, has many conflicts between parents and children. Rex and Rose Mary Walls both have their good but also have a lot of bad and are incredibly irresponsible sometimes. They also neglect their children throughout the story, make poor decisions, and believe a lot in self-sufficiency. At the beginning of the book, Jeannette Walls is three years old cooking hot dogs all by herself. She is using the stove unsupervised at an extremely young age, with her mother in the other room focusing on her painting.
The Walls family consists of Rex (father), Rose Mary (Mother), Lori, Brian, Jeannette, and Maureen (Children). Jeanette starts of her memoir in new york where she has made a living for herself, a good home in park avenue a nice husband and yet her parents are living out on the streets of the “Big Apple”. Not that she hasn't tried to help them, she has but her father insists they don't need anything and her mother asks for something silly like “perfume atomizer or membership in a health club”. Jeanette recalls her memories of when she was three, her parents are carefree and don't believe in rules or discipline.
Tyler Hovance Mrs. Wood English III 07 February 2021 The Remiss of Rex Walls Have you ever experienced bad parenting or parents neglecting their children? Well if you have you can relate to the Walls family from the book which is a memoir by Jeannette Walls
Even though the Walls children learned a lot of important lessons because they didn’t have a lot of money they also went through some really rough stuff. The family could not afford any place to stay so they ended up living with Rex’s mom. Erma was not a very nice lady. While they were staying there they needed top grab somethings from where they lived before. Their parent went it grabbed it.
When the Walls family didn’t have food to eat and Jeanette didn’t have money to buy food, she would look through the garbage at her school, in Welsh, West Virginia, for food, “When other girls came in and threw away their lunch bags in the garbage pails, I'd go retrieve them.” (PDF Walls 108). Her actions show her resourcefulness, although unhygienic, and how she provides for herself and her family. Her resourcefulness and survival skills also exhibits her selflessness and how much she cares about her family and siblings, which helped her in her life later in New York. Rex also taught the children to think outside the box and be curious about the world around them.
Rose Mary tells Jeannette that she married Rex Walls because “she had to get away from her mother, who wouldn’t let her make even the smallest decision on her own.” (27) Rose Mary’s limitations in making her own decisions while she was a child developed an inability to oppose the will of others. Rose Mary’s passivity enables her husband’s destructive behaviour which restricts the recovery of her family’s prosperity. Whenever Rex exhibits disruptive behaviour Rose Mary claims that there’s nothing any of them can do. They have to accept his father for who he is.
Joe is a 13 year old boy, and the amount of pain he has gone through witnessing the aftermath of his mothers attack. Joe's father also suffered greatly with this attack, changing Joe's mother forever. “Nobody else, not Clemence, not even my mother herself, cared as much as we did about my mother” (109-110), “My father did not move, did not take her hand or comfort her now in any way. He seemed frozen.”(158). The emotional toll of such an attack like this one can harm one's family immensely.
The joy of learning is what unified the Walls family and is the source of the children’s most endearing memories. They would read together and bond over learning. Jeannette recounts her happier moments “after dinner, the whole family was stretched out on the benches and the floor of the depot and read with the dictionary in the middle of the room so we could look up words we didn’t know. (Walls 56-57) The Walls not only believed in a growth mindset; sharing knowledge was in fact how Rex and Rose Mary best expressed their genuine love and affection towards their children.
Since the Walls family is so poor and homeless it seems that Rex and Rosemary are not always there to give their children the support and comfort that kids need at a young age. Instead of giving love and comfort, they decide to teach their kids how to be tough and how to learn to do things themselves. Unlike most parents, who focus on supporting, caring for their children first, and then teaching them how to live on their own once they get much older. This attentive parenting method is not visible in the Walls’ family. For example, when Jeannette has her accident with fire and explained it to the nurses she gets rather surprised and
One prominent reason is that while the Walls family is jumping from town to town, they are broke; they could have a little money, but the only problem is that they realize that Rex "spends more than he earns on booze" If Rex's self-perception was less egotistical, he might have been able to see how much he is hurting the family, but instead he continues to drink their money away. As Rex continues down a destructive path of poor parenting decisions, his children grow further and further away from him. While living in Welsh, the Wall children are on their last straw. While any normal parent would see this, Rex is so caught up in his delusional illusion of perfection that he can't see it until one day when he and Jeannette are fighting and she finally breaks and screams at Rex, asking "Why [doesn't] he act like a dad".
The ideas developed throughout The Glass Castle showcased many ways Jeanette Walls was able to take responsibility for mainly herself and also others in her family. In The Glass Castle Jeannette Walls is tasked with taking care of herself a lot of the time due to the lack of responsibility in the parents' parenting routines. Rose Mary and Rex Walls had been very adventurous people when they were younger, thus resulting in them having a mindset of “live like we are always on an adventure” was their type of mindset. The children often had to raise themselves for instance they would cook their food and find ways to entertain themselves and this didn't always end in the best way. When Jeanette was three she had to cook her hot dogs on the stove
They were frightened when they had to watch him chase Mom with a car and call her graphic names. These Rex characteristics have had a significant impact on the Walls family's relationship with their father and their perception of him as a
The first of the Walls children that was interviewed was the youngest child, year-old Maureen Walls. Maureen Walls has experienced extreme neglect while growing up in the Walls family. Despite the fact that the other siblings, Brian Walls, Jeannette Walls, and Lori Walls, all appear to have a strong connection and sense of family with one and other, Maureen Walls does not appear to have that. While living in Welsh, Maureen began to spend more time living with a neighboring family. Soon after the Walls family had moved into Welch, Maureen Walls began to practically live with their neighbors, who belonged to the Pentecostal faith (Walls ).
I believe they are inadequate parents. My opinion is based on everything, Jeannette had experienced in her early years as a child, and as a teen growing up in Welch. The first reason why I think Rex and Rose Mary Walls are inadequate parents, is the skedaddle. The skedaddle is something that Rex and Rose Mary Walls used as an excuse to escape the “FBI” and debt collectors (and they had a large sum of debt).