Many parents have different ways of raising their children to become successful. In the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” Amy Chua explains how Chinese parenting are better than western parenting. While in the article “Mother Inferior” Hanna Rosin explains that western parenting is a better ways of raising their children. Both think that their method of raising their child are better than the others. While both authors discuss parenting, they differ in the way they praise their child, the ways they punish their child, and the manner they speak to the child. Firstly, while both authors discuss parenting, they differ in the way they praise their child. In the article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” Amy Chua says that “When Chinese parents understand is that nothing is fun until you’re good at it” (1). On the other hand, in the article “Mother Inferior” Hanna Rosin says that “I wanted them to be coddled and never to experience hardship” (2). Chua’s way of praising her child is not to praise because it expected to be exceptional in their education. While Rosin’s way of praising is to give positive reinforcement because she doesn’t want to put their child down. Many Chinese parents tell their children that they can do better if their son or daughter bring a test with a B letter grade or below. However western parents praise their child if they bring a test with B letter grade. Many Chinese parents think if they praise their children that they won’t be motivated to do
Dear Mrs. Amy Chua, As an experienced (seasoned) mother of four, having recently read an excerpt from your book “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” I unconditionally disagree with your perspective on this idea. Your ideal parenting method is unacceptable as it damages self-esteem, confidence, and creativity. It truly scares me to think that the content of your article may persuade amateur parents to mimic you and your “tactics”, which would be an absolutely tragic plummet in parenting standards, sending us back to the 1900s. I understand that you believe that the best way to raise a child is through an intense regimen consisting of limited leisure and long hours of study. However, you must recognize that there is much more to childhood than this.
This is the classic story between parent and child in Amy Tan’s “Two Kinds.” The theme of this story revolves around a mother who wants nothing but the best for her daughter. Mrs. Woo, the mother of Jing-mei, is a struggling immigrant who had lost everything in China and believes in the American dream by stating, "My mother believed you could be anything you wanted to be in America” (639). She puts Jing-mei into various activities to figure out what she could be good at.
American lawyer and author, Amy Chua in her essay, “Why Chinese Mothers are Superior”, compares and contrast the stereotypical success of Chinese children versus the children of Western. 70% of Western mothers said that “stressing academic success is not good for children”, while roughly 0% of the Chinese mothers felt the same way. Chua’s purpose is to the point that Chinese children repay their parents by obeying them and making them proud, but Western parents don’t have the same view of children being permanently indebted to their parents. She adopts a formal tone in order to explain Chinese children’s success, in her intended audience, Chinese parents. Chua achieves her purpose through the use of anecdote and selection of details.
By later going on to say that the key to good parenting lies in who a parent is and not what a parent does, a unique and appealing look into human behavior is revealed. In both of these cases, the occasion and abstract details discussed appeal to a large audience of individuals interested in reading current, unique
Amy Chua’s intense Chinese mother style is extremely hard on children. The author begins explaining how many stereotypical Chinese children become successful.
Being a parent is something anyone can do. Only the competent ones, however, can raise a child that surpasses oneself--a child that will revitalize one’s purpose. Sharing a faulty/disconnected dynamic, the mother and child in the stories “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan and “Rice and Rose Bowl Blues” by Mei Lin Mark have trouble communicating what one wants to the other and why a working consensus cannot be reached. Both sets of characters in their respective stories have a similar problem and struggle throughout the story that is never properly resolved. Using similes, figurative language, syntax, and connotative diction, Tan and Mark reveal the theme that when children are given unreasonably high expectations when they are young, they are put into
“That’s my girl! Dad said with a hug, then barked orders at us all to speed things up” (17). They show their kids what they believe to be a good life, and they don’t let their children think anything negative about it because that if their
The article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” was written in 2011 by Amy Chua, who is a professor at Yale Law School in the United States of America. The article follows significant themes such as the upbringing of children and perfectionism. In the article, the author, Amy Chua, explains the differences between the upbringing of children by respectively Chinese parents and Western parents.
The daughters are “ignorant,...unmindful of all the truths and hopes” that their mothers have brought to America. Complaining about the way their mothers are not able to understand much about the new culture they are living in, the daughters dismiss their traditional Chinese ways as “stupid,” letting the mothers think there will be no hope for the Chinese traditions to be “passed from generation to generation.” There is an indirect collision between the mothers’ generation and the generations in the future; Suyuan Woo and her friends will no longer have an effect and be valued by those generations. Daughter Rose Hsu Jordan also comes across conflicts with her husband’s Ted Jordan’s mother before the couple gets married. Ted mother’s explained to Rose that “he needed to concentrate on his medical studies before he could even think about
(Tan 170-172). The mothers are actually very proud of their daughters, though, they just want them to strive for excellence. Lindo Jong states, “‘I am ashamed she is ashamed. Because she is my daughter and I am proud of her, and I am her mother and she is not proud of me. ’”(Tan
The story that I chose to write my essay over was “The Chinese in All of Us” by Richard Rodriguez. The claims and the meaning of this writing are very well thought out and introspective. In this text Richard Rodriguez talks about his experience with being a minority living in the United States. He goes into detail about he does not see himself as an outsider, but rather as a member of a “melting pot” society. I find the authors points in this story very confounding, and believe that our country is one of unity through diversity.
This last concept is notable because cultural differences in parenting choices may affect how the state (and society) respond to non-traditional ideas. While some are benign, such as ignoring a crying baby, some are seen as less benign, such as physical punishment. A last consideration in discussing parental rights, responsibilities, and punishments is the potential for cultural variation. In the United States, parents are assumed to possess the intrinsic right to raise their child in a manner of their choosing.
With the aim of understanding the effects of parenting styles on social behaviour of children, I have studied many researches and realised that parenting style has a major role in a child’s social behavioural development. Parenting style is over all style or example we took from our parents in bringing up one's children instead of a particular choice taken at a particular circumstance. This pattern develops the personality of the child. There are two fundamental components of parenting style, one is responsiveness that is the amount you're willing to give freedom to your child and the other is demanding that is the way strict you are or dutifulness you require.
Amy Chua's "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother" offers a controversial perspective on parenting, arguing that the traditional Chinese parenting style is superior to the Western approach. Both the strengths and weaknesses of Chua's argument are elaborated. The reasoning for considering the essay to be effective or ineffective, in accomplishing Chua‘s goal, is also explained. In her book, "Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother," Amy Chua makes a divisive argument that Chinese parenting, which places an emphasis on order, diligence, and deference to authority, is better to Western parenting. Chua effectively establishes her credibility and backs up her theory by using ethos, pathos, and logos along with proof and personal stories, despite the discussion
Hanna Rosin’s article, The Overprotected Kid, Rosin, an author, explains how Rosin’s life as a kid is different from the Rosin kid’s lives. “....on weekends I barely saw her at all. I, on the other hand, might easily spend every waking Saturday hour with one if not all three of my children, taking one to a soccer game, the second to a theater program, the third to a friend’s house, or just hanging out with them at home” (Rosin, 4). As stated in the text, Rosin spends a lot of time with the family, while Rosin’s mother did not spend a lot of time with Rosin. Helicopter parenting has become the mindset of typical families, including critics of helicopter parenting.