SUMMARY American poet, Linda Pastan, in her poem “Marks” published in 1978 addresses the topic of women’s roles in the household and asserts that although mothers may be good at their household job, their desire to fulfill other careers is overpowering and necessary to thrive. Pastan supports her claim by using vivid imagery, such as describing the grades she gets from her life job, a repeating pattern in the sentence structure, when listing what each of her family members grades her as, and connotative diction, when describing her feelings about being targeted in such a hardening and impersonal way. The author’s overall purpose is to inform readers that women were and still are being stereotyped, so that they might think about how they treat …show more content…
This can be depicted as the author uses a candid tone to convey the lack of emotional comfort the mother feels around her family. The short, blunt lines fall flat with little emotion, which is depicted when the mother states, “My sons says I am average” (Pastan 883). The image that pops into my mind is a young boy that is almost scolding his mother, when in fact, it should be the other way around. In some cases, this is ironic,as a mother is usually the person scolding, not the other way around. In addition to this, the mother who is speaking in first person, blatantly states the situations that she is dealing with, such as “my husband gives me an A for last night’s supper” (Pastan 883). This type of writing make it seem as if the mother is a robot, and not treated like an actual person. Pastan’s utilization of informal diction emphasizes how her use of simple and straightforward vocabulary is similar to the viewpoint and tone of the speaker. Just as the family gives the mother her grades, with no consideration of her feelings, she plainly giving her audience facts, which can be seen as a lack of empathy. However, at the end of the poem, we see a spark in the mother's characterization after she exclaims, “Wait ‘till they learn I’m dropping out” (Pastan 883). The picture that appears in my mind in the end is a …show more content…
Because Pastan is known for writing stories and poems regarding family life, domesticity, motherhood, the female experience, aging, death, loss and the fear of loss, as well as the fragility of life and relationships, it is no surprise that this one including many of the previously mentioned topics. To name a few, motherhood, the female experience and relationships were the three most relevant topics I saw in the poem. These three topics are extremely important, because not only are they significant in this story, but in all families across the globe. I also noticed the historical importance of this poem, as back during the 1970’s, few people considered being a wife and mother a full-time job, and it is not uncommon for a woman who take on both of these roles to feel overworked and unappreciated. Interestingly, Marks was written in 1978, which took place during the March for the Equal Rights Amendment. As Feminism was on the rise, as women advocated for an equal representation in the workfield. It can be seen by Pastan’s writing, such as when she mention the typical responsibilities a mother takes care of, such as cooking and ironing, that she is addressing the lack of respect mothers’ and women's roles in the household were given during this time period. I believe that straightforward and plain tone can be seen a reflection of the plain
The speaker tries to leave her mark literally and figuratively everywhere she goes. From the tone and mood of the poem, the reader is able to pick up that the speaker is more of an extrovert while the mother is an
For centuries, women were portrayed as objects and property that could be disrespected for no reasonable explanation, but today that has changed. Many bright and exceptional women have been acknowledged and brought to attention to inspire many other women to be brave enough to show how unique they are. This has occurred because other brave women like Lyddie, have helped fight for women’s respect and rights. Lyddie is a historical fiction book created by Katherine Patterson. This intriguing book includes struggles a teen in the 1840’s encounters like being treated similar to how a slave would be.
In her essay, “The Importance of Work,” from The Feminine Mystique published in 1963, Betty Friedan confronts American women’s search for identity. Throughout the novel, Betty Friedan breaks new ground, concocting the idea that women can discover personal fulfillment by straying away from their original roles. Friedan ponders on the idea that The Feminine Mystique is the cause for a vast majority of women during that time period to feel confined by their occupations around the house; therefore, restricting them from discovering who they are as women. Friedan’s novel is well known for creating a different kind of feminism and rousing various women across the nation.
The women endured additional burdens like campaigns against hiring women because they thought jobs should go to male breadwinners and then three quarters of the school districts in the country banned married women from being hired as teachers (Henretta, 2009). The women in Minnesota in breadlines were subject to sit in employment bureaus and hoped for work to try to provide for their family (Bethel University, 2005). The women here are those who are middle-aged, some have families, while some have raised the children and now they are alone (Bethel University, 2005). The others are those who have men that are out of work (Bethel University, 2005). These women are left to struggle to fed many mouths by themselves, while the women who pride gets the best of them starves silently, leaving the children to find work (Bethel University, 2005).
Deja Patterson English 3 Honors 2nd Block Mr. Colagross 4 January 2016 Doubt Analysis: Oppression of Women It is said that as a woman you are suppose to stay home, clean up, breed and raise the children. Women were not allowed to hold a higher job or success than men because they might feel intimidated and their ego might actually shirk instead of being inflated. The concept of how women are suppose to portray, have been suppressing women into these roles by both men and women since the earth has been created.
When her only son was going to school , she said; “ I never though a son of mine would choose useless books over the parents that have you life”(Macleod 18). It shows how the mother was putting so much pressure and guilt
Grade Me In the poem “Marks” by Linda Pastan, a woman is constantly being judged from several calibers on her role as a day to day mother. Throughout the poem the speaker wants to give up. This poem shows how emotional abuse can affect family relationships.
“Have dinner ready, prepare yourself, prepare the children, minimize all noise, be happy to see him, listen to him, make the evening his”, here is what young women learned at school in the 1950’s in America (Vanessa Martins Lamb). Women with the constant social pressure of being well dressed and being taught to have good etiquette is the training that most women have to go through in order to obtain the perfect housewife image till her marriage. The reader of this novel views it a way to harm the role of women and how they are viewed, in a male dominant society. The novel set during the time where women were oppressed by the male dominant society to remain in her position of a housewife inside the “kitchen walls” and condemned to accept fighting all alone with the daily routine (“1950-1970”).
The concept of motherhood and the role of women have existed since the beginning of time and throughout various points it has differ. There is no limit to what can be considered motherhood. To one person, motherhood might mean the act of raising children and taking care of their family, and to another; motherhood might be what defines them as a person. This is seen in Tillie Olsen’s short story “I Stand Here Ironing” and the “Yellow Wallpaper” by Charlotte Perkins Gilman. In both stories, the main characters were dealing with the struggles of motherhood and being a wife.
The authors Paul Langan and Ben Alirez use characterization to show the theme how innocent people are victims of gang violence. Lagan and Alirez use the mom and Martin to show how innocent victims suffer. On page 14, the authors depict the mom with misery on her face through Martin eyes, “Even when she managed to stop, there were quiet tears rolling from her eyes, sparkling on her face like tiny shards of broken glass.” This shows that innocent people can also affect by violence. The mom with the big wound in her heart, and that wound even worse than physical wound, will last the rest of her life: The mom lost her little son without official reason.
Anne Tyler is known for her novels often depicting a dysfunctional family dynamic. The family hardships apparent in Ladder of Years and Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant, in effect, generates female characters to stray from stereotypical gender societal expectations. Ladder of Years centers a woman from Baltimore, Delia Grinstead, who disappears during a family vacation. Delia abandons her family due to the prolong discontent, which is not discern by her husband. During this hiatus away from her family, Delia releases herself from her previous feeling of confinement, recognizes herself as an individual separate from her family, and becomes self-sufficient.
As I read the title I found myself delighted that the daughter could possibly be the narrator along with appreciation the daughter has for her mother then I thought to myself how cute that is. I’m convinced that the message through the text but mostly through the art is no matter what circumstances or tragedies a family may go through, together a family can hope for better and brighter days. The art which is definitely appealing to me in A Chair for My Mother illustrates with warm, bright and sadly a few dark colors. In any picture book it’s very important to realize the art that the illustrator is interpreting. Many illustrators convey messages in their art in many ways whether it’s through color, lines, or shapes.
During the 1890’s until today, the roles of women and their rights have severely changed. They have been inferior, submissive, and trapped by their marriage. Women have slowly evolved into individuals that have rights and can represent “feminine individuality”. The fact that they be intended to be house-caring women has changed.
Here when analyzing the newly cleaned floor that she has just swept, she compares it to cleaned dishes, implying that she washes dishes as well. Through her expertise in several types of cleaning, the reader can see the gender role of women being chained to house work. The judgment passed on women that they know how to clean and how to do it well serves as one of the main feminist point of views in today’s culture. This demonstrates the classic opinion of women’s role during important times of history; the women of the family simply stay at home and clean while the husband is most likely off fighting in the
A number of poems revealing the tensions of childhood or child parent relationships, placed after the “Sequence in Hospital,” fall like a shadow from some giant distress, grown over the years, which has finally over-whelmed her as she struggles with that “ache for certainty that never ends.” “Father to Son,” “Domestic Dramas,” “Warning to Parents,” an ironic “Happy Families,” “Mah Jong,” all validate this, as do five poems entitled “Exodus I- V.” Her departure is from the promised land, a force emigration of childhood to the doubts of adulthood. These six pages are the repository of much of the material used in her poems; their sequence of short paragraphs from two to four lines at length present a stream of consciousness flow of thoughts,