The relationship of people and their world is interactive and complementary. The world reflects their behaviors while people learn from the world. People know about the world through different methods: by direct contact, by social media; also through other’s descriptions. How people consider the outside world and have the self-awareness depends on their living environments. For example,in busyness, the pace of people’s lives is intense because of a highly competitive of the society. So people have to live in a busy life to adapt to the competitive society. For instance, someone living in a different state would have different perceptions of the way we do things compared to their ways. In the essay, “Bumping into Mr.Ravioli” by Adam Gopnik …show more content…
Busy does not mean efficiency, but the efficiency can lead people a busy life and speed up life space. People think they are busy because their life spaces have been reinforced by crowding of time, they feel like repressed by the quick life pace. Living in a busy society, the attitude of each person can be different as long as people comprehend the real meaning of busy life and in this way they can better make good use of time while having a positive attitude to challenge both difficulties and themselves in the busy life. Through the image people lived everyday, they haste leave home and to eat; work with overloading message; everything seems in a hurry. Gopnik gives an example, “Busyness is felt so intently here because we are both crowded and overloaded. We exit the apartment into a still dense nineteenth grid of street corners and restaurants full of people,and come home to the late-twentieth-century grid of faxes and e-mails overwhelming incompleteness”(158). As Gopnik mentions, people feel they are crowded and overloaded, because people always think they are busy and they should be busy every day. So they eat in a hurry in crowded places while the heavy work makes them feel more stressed. Busy life not only reflects the competitiveness of society, but also gives people pressure. However,This kind of busy shows people are numb about their busy life; they just living under pressure from both work and society, and they do not have a specific plan to dominate their life in their own ways; they are just being busy everyday, like a machine with no feeling but they have no choice. Consequently, in the face of the busy life, if people live with self- paralysis and do not make a specific plan they will get much pressure instead of efficiency. On the contrary, if people live the busy life with another positive attitude: they enjoy and appreciate the