There daughters were always ashamed of and resented their mothers, especially while they were young. The daughters felt this way because of the way their mothers raised them. The mothers were very hard on their daughters, and pushed them towards successful, sometimes causing their daughter to feel overwhelmed. The mothers wanted their daughters to keep their Chinese heritage and culture, but also take advantage of the opportunities they have in America. The daughters were often ashamed of their Chinese heritage, and the way that their mothers acted.
As many Chinese-Americans grew up in the 1960’s, one women described it best in her multiple literary works. Bestselling, Chinse-American writer, Amy Tan in her autobiographic essay, “Fish Cheeks”, illustrates her humiliating experience at a Christmas Eve dinner at the age of fourteen. Tan’s purpose is to interpret the idea of how her mother cared for Tan deeply and wanted her to be proud of her Chinese heritage and family. She adopts a nostalgic tone in order to engage relatable thoughts and feelings in her adult readers. Even decades after the essay had been written, readers can still relate to the embarrassing situation that Tan had to face.
The prejudice Ying Ying Saint Clair feels for American culture causes her to have a difficult time understanding and communicating with her daughter. Because Ying Ying Saint Clair was raised in China, she views western ways as valuing worthless material items and ignoring critical traditions and values. As she watches her daughter mature and make her
The mother in “Fish Cheeks” wants her daughter Amy to not wish to be someone she is not. She tells Amy, “You want to be the same as American girls on the outside. But inside you are always Chinese” (Tan, 176). Amy’s mother doesn’t want Amy to have childish desires to be an American girl, and instead embrace her Chinese qualities like an adult. While Amy’s mother encourages adult maturity through pride and self-esteem, Richard’s mother teaches him to grow up with a stern and violent method.
The essay “Asian Problems” presents the struggle that an asian in America encounters because of the many differences these cultures posses. The author points out how moving to the United States was a big transition. He also exposes how his americanization led to problems with his parents. The fact that they are traditional and their views are based on their culture creates a difference among him and his parents. The liberty in America caused many issues with the way they saw his son’s actions.
Summary of Mother Tongue by Amy Tan Mother Tongue by Amy Tan is an essay about her and her mothers English, and their Chinese heritage and how it reflects in the way Tans mother speak, and how it affected Amys upbringing and English. The essay begins with Amy writing about the “different englishes” she grew up with, as she describes her mother “broken” English, although you wouldn’t say it’s really broken, it’s just a different way her mother speaks as she comes from China, and that’s how the English translates directly from mandarin grammar. Amy writes about the difficulties it caused her when she was growing up, for example handling her mother’s phone call as the stockbroker wouldn’t take the “broken” English seriously. But would listen
As my essay will prove the split from one generation and the other relates to the process of Americanization that the daughters undergo, as well as the values and Chinese heritage that the mothers refuse to let go off. These factors will cause mutual suffering and in the end a generational gap between the two groups. The resulting generational gap animates the narrative, as mothers and daughters seek to appreciate each other, and their individual efforts diminish and contain the traumas depicted as precise of the maternal, Chinese culture. 1.
Because the main character’s mother is a Chinese immigrant, she had an inflated opinion on the opportunities achievable in America. She moved in hopes of a better future for both herself and her future family, so she wanted to make the most out of her new life. This caused her to hold her daughter to high standards, which caused her daughter to worry that “the prodigy in [her] became impatient” (Tan
Amy Chua’s intense Chinese mother style is extremely hard on children. The author begins explaining how many stereotypical Chinese children become successful.
In modern society, more and more people concert about the influence that parents affect their kids. So there are two stories which catch people’s eyes. In the story “Two Kinds” and “Tiger Moms” which wrote by Annie Murphy Paul and Amy Tan, the heroes of stories are Amy’s mother and Amy Chua respectively. The difference is that Amy Chua is crueler than Amy’s mother. However those two characters both hope their kids have wonderful career in the future.
Amy Chua a renowned author and professor of Law at Yale, produces an article that a majority will no doubt find controversial, others exciting and others yet down right offensive. The article, “Why Chinese Mothers are Superior,” published on 8th January 2011 in The Wall Street Journal, engages in an exposition of what she considers the Chinese, and essentially ideal model to parenting is, while at the same time launches a scathing attack on the Westerner’s approach to parenting. Although the article is quite controversial, and some of the narratives provided quite shocking, I do agree with some of Amy Chua’s assertions and proposals regarding parenting. Amy Chua begins by stating the fact that Chinese parents are so good at raising stereotypically successful children is not a coincidence, but
Jayden Heil Kottcamp English Composition 16 August 2023 “Two Kinds” and “An American Childhood” Comparison Sacrifice, love, pain: all words to describe the job of a mother. Every mother, simply put, is just a human. Many people have different ideas about what a mother should be and how they should raise their children. In “Two Kinds,” Amy Tan is a young Chinese-American who grew up with an immigrant mother who believed that in America anyone could do anything.
Throughout the entire novel, the mothers and daughters face inner struggles, family conflict, and societal collision. The divergence of cultures produces tension and miscommunication, which effectively causes the collision of American morals, beliefs, and priorities with Chinese culture which
How Mental Disorders Contributes to Serial Killers A serial killer and the reasons for their behavior are so unlike there is no basis to compare to other criminals and the reasons they commit their crimes. One reason why is that most serial killers are affected with various mental disorders, also known as a mental illness.
The article “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior” was written in 2011 by Amy Chua, who is a professor at Yale Law School in the United States of America. The article follows significant themes such as the upbringing of children and perfectionism. In the article, the author, Amy Chua, explains the differences between the upbringing of children by respectively Chinese parents and Western parents.
