When soldiers enlist in the war, they know they might have to kill people. Even though the soldiers are supposed to kill them, Paul realized he would have to live with it for the rest of his life. This also made his perception change on how he saw the Russians. On his leave, he went up to the fence where the Russians were and thought about how, “their life is obscure and guiltless; -if I could know more of them, what their names are, how they live, what they are waiting for, what their burdens are, then my emotions would have an object and might become sympathy” (Remarque 193). By knowing more of their lives, he would see them as more human.
Throughout the story, Remarque shows how the men involved in war have different perceptions of war
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She wanted to know what war was like but Paul thought, “Was it bad, you ask -You, Mother, - I shake my head and say; “No, Mother, not so very. There are always a lot of us together so it is not so bad” (Remarque 161). He didn’t tell her because if she really knew what was going on it would have broken her. She was already sick and he did not want to hurt her more by telling her about the war. This adds on to the idea of people having different perceptions of what is going on in the war. The men involved do not have the heart to tell the people not in the war what it is really about while the people not in the war get mad that the soldiers do not tell them about the war. The men in the war do not tell them because if they did, the people not in the war may be hurt by how bad it is. Because of this, they skirt around saying what war is like. This also happens again when Paul goes to Kemmerich’s house to tell his mom how he died. His mom wants to hear the truth about how he was killed but Paul makes up how he because he thought, “When a man has seen so many dead he cannot understand any longer why there should be so much anguish over a single individual. So I say rather impatiently: “He died immediately. He felt absolutely nothing at all. His face was quite calm’” (Remarque 181). He does it because he thinks that it does not really matter how he died, he is dead anyways. Also, if he did tell them, it would have been hard for her to hear the true