The short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates is about a teenage girl named Connie who is in the midst of her adolescent rebellion. She wants to prove her maturity to others and herself. In the story, Oates describes that Connie always lets her mind flow freely in between her daydream. She even creates and keeps dreaming about her ideal male figure in her mind to make her happy and satisfied. Oates allows the reader to step into Connie’s “dream world” through the appearance of Arnold Friend. Throughout the story, there are many instances of the illogical time and settings, the similarity between Arnold and Connie and the unrealistic events show that the meeting between Connie and Arnold Friend is a dream. The dream is also a preparation for Connie before she steps onto the stage of being an adult.
Connie’s dream begins when she refuses to go to her aunt’s house for a barbecue party. She stays home, and under the warmness of the sun, she begins her daydreaming about love and the boy she met the night before. In the beginning, the author writes, “Connie sat with her eyes closed in the sun…” (Oates 12), which means that Connie falls asleep after her family left. Then right in the same paragraph, Oates also tells us “when [Connie]
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In the dream, she has to fight and choose a path for her future life. This can be seen through how Oates describes that Connie keeps standing at the door and stepping out and “[backing] away from the door” (105). In this situation, the door plays the role of an invisible wall between a familiar place where she was born and grow up and a place where Arnold is, where she has never been. At the end of her practice, Connie’s innocence loses the battle; she accepts her evil side and forms her new