Judy Ruiz purpose for writing this essay is ambiguity of being a person trapped into a body they do not want to be. “Sex is of the body. It has no words. I am stunned to learn that someone with an obsession of the mind can have parts of the body surgically removed” (3). Throughout this essay Ruiz touches on the human perception and understanding of something so different to others. While some find this easy to relate too, others find it difficult to comprehend such a drastic decision because the choice was not to their own bodies. As Ruiz explained, her brother made this decision based on his best interest and his hopeless feeling of being stuck in the wrong body. She states, “ My brother is hell-bent for castration”(4). Ruiz is attempting to convey a lot of different messages in this essay. One of which could be that you cannot alter another human’s way of thinking or rationality. Throughout the essay Ruiz struggled to understand her brother’s decision, but towards thee end she accepted the ideal and was alternated happy for her his decision. …show more content…
As this line says “The orange, being the patient fruit, will wait for you much longer than say a banana or a peach” (1). She is implying that her brother should have more patients when making such a life alternating decision to surgically remove parts of him. To her, he is making this monumental decision way too quickly, but to him it is the only way he is ever going to feel any comfort in his melancholy lifestyle. She talks about how the orange could “save his life”, which is a metaphor saying if he was more like the orange and patient, he could live longer because the surgery is life