I’m not sure if I mentioned this before, but as Wilde’s affair with Lord Alfred Douglas was going on, he was still married to this chick. He even had two kids with her. You’d expect her to be some ugly old bat if he went and cheated on her with a dude but no she was supposed to be described as being extremely beautiful to other men at that time. Looking at pictures of her on google images, I’d agree, for the late 1800s she isn’t as ugly as they usually come by. She’s fairly pretty. Another assumption you might make about them is that it was one of those things where they married because the other had a lot of money or is was an arranged marriage but that’s not the case here as well. They’re actually said to have known each other five years before wedding. …show more content…
She often wore pants around the house (which was a major no no for women in the late 1800s but the Wilde’s couldn’t have given less of a care) and he supported her idea of women’s rights. Together they built a house with his most favorite idea of aestheticism as the foundation for it all and then having them work their way up. At this point it just sounds like Wilde married his best friend, which must have been extremely, extremely rare to do in the late 1800s. But I guess they didn’t if the husband went out after a few years and started whoring around with other local young guys. Wilde was even been known to have urged his friends to get married after his first child was born, he was in love with his own life so much. Yet, in Wilde’s writing he talks about how certain ideas of love and marriage are viewed by him as strange and meaningless. However, he does say that the very idea of being in love is desirable, just not everything else that comes with