In the Unites States, 1 out of every 8 women develop breast cancer. Despite the commonality of the disease, those diagnosed with breast cancer often feel alone and scared after receiving the news. If someone you know is battling breast cancer, you probably want to help but are unsure how to go about it. It is common and natural to feel this way, but don't let uncomfortable feelings keep you away. Your friend needs you now more than ever, and there are lots of ways you can help. Get Things Done Life doesn't stop during cancer treatment, which means those fighting the disease often have long to-do lists they just can't tackle. Having someone take care of these errands greatly reduces worry and stress. If you're not sure where to start, ask your friend or their primary caregiver what you can help with. Those battling cancer may need someone to: Cook meals Clean the house Do laundry Pickup prescriptions Mow the lawn Provide childcare or pet care Go grocery shopping Drive the kids to their activities Visit Often Because they are not sure what to do for a friend with breast cancer, some people do nothing. Unfortunately, this can lead to isolation and loneliness for …show more content…
It's fine if you don't know what to say and you can be honest about feeling a little unsure. It is better to admit that you're at a loss for words than to try and fill space with the wrong ones. No one battling breast cancer wants to hear about how it was when your great aunt had it or talk about your recent flawless mammogram. Instead, try to focus on normal activities. Play cards, watch your favorite TV shows together, or paint you nails. These activities bring a sense of normalcy to life. Be aware, too, that your friend will have good and bad days. If she needs to cry, yell or vent, let her do so. On quiet or angry days just sit quietly and listen rather than trying to fix