People are put in life-or-death situations all the time, whether they choose to be or not. Some people choose to go war, knowing that they are risking their lives. Others do not know that they are getting into life-or-death situations, maybe if they get stuck in a large storm that was not expected. Regardless, people are often put in life-or-death situations. In these situations, because need to take actions and make hard choices.
You could already tell that he was traumatized from this and this is where my argument goes, this shouldn’t even be forgiven in the first place. How would any of the things that he has seen ever be able to be forgiven for. Even if anyone does forgive this, the damage has already been done. It has already affected many people anyways so there’s no point in forgiving if there is no reasonable thought
As declared before sometimes letting go is the best thing while letting go has obviously helped the seventh man he needs to forgive himself because he has already lost so much time, love, and life, all because he let terror rule his life and it took him a long time to realize
Everyone has heard the saying “nobody is perfect” and it is true we are all humans, we all make mistakes sometimes, but to what extent does someone stop forgiving when they have endured all the hardship a person gives them after they have been forgiven several times. There is a certain point in life when some people do not deserve to be forgiven because every time that person is forgiven, that person takes advantage it because that person knows they will be forgiven. There is one very prominent character in a story who fits the reason of why some people do not deserve forgiveness, especially when they've been given multiple chances to do the right thing. That person is Amir from the book the Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini.
Throughout the course of history, there are many incidents where things have gone horribly wrong. These occurrences and decisions could have been made very consciously, or just a pure accident. In the occasions that the events are done consciously, those who are in the wrong can take responsibility from their mistake as this is the only way to start learning from them. When thinking of examples of people who have made mistakes and them owning up to that mistake and learning from it, many came to my mind. However, there is one story in particular that affected many families, and has been a learning curve for many individuals, all caused by one man.
As Mila Bron said, “In order to heal we must first forgive…and sometimes the person we must forgive is ourselves.” In “The Seventh Man” by Haruki Murakami the narrator should forgive himself for his failure to save K. because he could have died himself and he was not wholly in control of his actions during the life-or-death situation. The narrator was not responsible for the wave that killed K. and he should not punish himself for something that was out of his control. The narrator blamed himself for K.’s death, but in reality, he was not able to do anything without endangering his own life.
Survivor guilt...mental condition that occurs when a person believes they have done something wrong. I feel like survivor’s of life and death situations should not feel guilty. Survivor’s of life and death situations should not feel guilt because they didn’t do anything. But, we should not forget that some people believe survivor’s should feel guilt. My opinion on it is survivor’s should not feel guilty in a situation.
“...We often take responsibility in a way that goes beyond what we can reasonably be held responsible for”(Sherman 154), says Nancy Sherman in “The Moral Logic of Survivor Guilt.” Sherman believes that people blame themselves too much when something goes wrong in a dangerous situation; and even when something happens that is out of their control, they cannot forgive themselves for the outcome of the event. Should people in life-or-death situations be held accountable for their actions? Someone might argue that people should take responsibility for what they do, even in survival mode. However, in life-or-death situations, people should not accuse other, and make them feel remorse for their actions, because, in survival mode, a person wants to save themselves before anyone else.
Many people that survive tragedies carry an overwhelming guilt that comes in the form of a burden for reasons that aren’t entirely based upon reality. They’ll take blame for something that wasn’t there wrong-doing. One example that stands prominent is The Seventh Man in the short story, The Seventh Man. At the end of the anecdote, The Seventh Man finally buries the hatchet and accepts that he had no part in his best friend’s, K.’s, death. That arouses the question, should he forgive himself?
Events that occur randomly and that are traumatic can take a toll on all aspects of an individual that endure them, what if an individual were in a gruesome situation and the lives of human beings were lost under their unintentional control? How would they feel for the rest of their lifetime? In the article “The Moral Logic of Survivor Guilt” by Nancy Sherman, she describes the emotional reality of soldiers in their home are often at odds with the civilian public, and are struggling to carry the burden of feeling responsible of traumatic situations. Survivor’s guilt is the bold feeling that survivors have after a tragic event taking place when others have passed away. Soldiers in battle experience losses during combat.
In a life or death situation, what do you do? If you had to decide to save yourself and let a friend die, or try help your friend, when odds are you will perish as well… what would you do? Would you even be accountable for your actions? In dire situations it seems people cannot control their actions, like the boy in “The Seventh Man”. This idea is also reinforced in “The Moral Logic of Survivor Guilt” from the view of a war survivor.
The Most Valuable Qualities of a Survival Situation What is most valuable in a survival situation? Prompt 2: The definition of survival is not just the ability to survive, but the ability to overcome. The mental aspect of surviving is overcoming the results that happen after an individual survives. It can either be seen through guilt or self-forgiveness in an individual. This scenario is explained multiple times throughout the Survival unit.
Should the Seventh man forgive himself? The word forgive is a bigger word in this context. Itś bigger due to the fact that the question is asking should the Seventh man forgive himself for his friends death. The Seventh man should definitely forgive himself.
Survivors of disasters often feel a gut-wrenching sense of guilt, a sense so strong it sometimes takes over their lives. They could have done something more to save those who died, and they play out different scenarios of what could have happened in their head, over and over again. This is called survivor guilt, and is felt by many people who survive a tragedy that others die from. The main character of “The Seventh Man” by Haruki Murakami, was a victim to this awful feeling. He needs to be able to forgive himself for his failure to save his friend K., so he can live a life free of the burden of survivor guilt.
It’s only a fortunate few who are given the chance to atone for their sins. Committed sins create problem between friend, family and others. Forgiveness is not an easy thing to do when things have gone extremely wrong. “To err is human, to forgive divine” (Charu. B) That means committing errors is human, to forgive is divine.
