“A hunger for authenticity guides us in every age and aspect of life.” Karen Wright, a writer for Psychology Today, examines this subject in her article “Dare to Be Yourself”. Some people live their lives not knowing who they truly are—some purposefully hiding who they are—due to fear or utter confusion. When asked to define oneself one may even struggle to conjure up a word. Anyone who has hidden themselves, or their qualities knows that when a person accepts their true character, the best shines through once they are fully themselves. This acceptance has resulted over the years in a more bubbly, animated, and vivacious type of person. A person truly more me. The main reason I have chosen the word effervescent to describe me is I feel that I strive to be outwardly myself in many …show more content…
I had been waiting to tell my dad ever since I told the others, but I was just too nervous. When you tell your father topics of this nature you usually are nervous because being gay is usually seen as being "less manly" or in some religions an enormous sin. I finally spilled the beans the day before his birthday. My intention had always been to tell him in words, but still I was nervous. As we got in the van after church I ran to the front, gave him a card, and ran back to the back of the van. The card read, "The best gift for your birthday is the truth" and the card told him. He put down the card and was silent, he cried a little. I was somewhat confused, he was in shock and at a loss for words. I went to bed that night not knowing what to expect in the morning. As I lay there I faintly heard my mother and father talking, not arguing, but discussing the day 's event. When I woke my dad was in his room and my mom told me he wanted to talk. I walked in and shut the door behind me. He looked like he had been crying, he hugged me and told me he did not at the moment understand, but that he would always love