Examples Of Coming Of Age In Romeo And Juliet

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Finn Linder
Ross Waghorn
English 9 2Red
5/17/23
Coming of Age Coming of age is the attainment of prominence, respectability, recognition, or maturity. This signifies the growth and transformation from a child to an adult. Loss and love are two major coming-of-age components that play substantial roles in the journey of youth. In the novel The Fault in Our Stars written by John Green, the narrator Hazel Grace experiences a heartbreaking loss that changes her completely. In the play Romeo and Juliet written by William Shakespeare, Juliet explores her feelings of love and desire for her one and only Romeo. Both stories give a closer look into how these elements effect coming of age.
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Carl Pickhardt love is an intense feeling of deep affection. The young person largely projects onto another person's idealized attributes they value and want to be associated with. Then she or he attaches strong positive feelings to the image of them. Juliet is an adolescent girl living in the Capulet house abiding by her family's rules. Her world is shaken when she falls in love at first sight with Romeo from the rivaling Montague house. They are star-crossed lovers that have a forbidden romance that greatly impacts both characters and the story. At the beginning of the story, Juliet says, "I'll look to like, if looking liking move, but no more deep will I endart mine eye than your consent gives strength to make it fly." This shows Juliet’s naive and innocence of how she will only explore love under her strict family’s guidance. After falling for Romeo she remarks, “My bounty is as boundless as the sea, my love as deep; the more I give to thee, the more I have, for both are infinite.” This quote indicates the powerful unrelinquished love she feels towards Romeo and the sacrifice of family guidelines she is willing to make to have their romance flourish. Adolescence and the Teenage Crush shows that Juliet is feeling romantic love and not identity. Through being compelled to Romeo she realizes herself defying her own family’s wishes becoming her own unique individual drawn by personal values. She set aside her family’s feud for Romeo causing her to grow as a person and character in the