FRP Love Languages
1) What does your partner do or fail to do that hurts you most deeply?
What hurts me the most is when my husband plays video games at night when we should be spending time together and having a mindful conversation. We only get a few hours at most each day together and I want to be doing something that betters our relationship. I love when we cook or do any small task together because we talk about life and it brings us closer together. We talk about our mistakes that we made that day and laugh about the funny things that got us through the day. I feel that spending time together makes us grow as a couple and makes us healthier as individuals. I feel stronger and more at peace when I have spent time with my best friend. I have talked about love languages with my husband and he tries to understands how we both show and receive love. I am finding that after an hour or so with us spending time together and really talking, I don’t mind him going in playing the game for a little while. I guess I just want to know that I am more important than that game. I want him to want to spend time with his family. I must say that he has been amazing at trying to spend as must time with me as possible when I am home. He told me that he didn’t know it upset me so much. I need to learn to
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He loves when I tell him how well he is doing and that I am thankful for him. I tell him every day that I love him and that he is a good husband and father to our son. I tell him that I apreate everything that he has done for us. I try and remember to tell him thank you when he does the dishes or laundry. Also, I touch him daily and try to express how much he means to me by touch. I play with his hair and rub his chest and I see how that affects him. When I show this type of love to him, he seems more happy and healthy. We are able to connect to each other and we become better at meeting each other’s