Functional Myths And Perceptions Of Families

What do we know about the families of the past? It seems we do not know much based on truths. Fed the romanticized versions by the media, we have been inspired to believe in and create a perfect family. However, this romanticization has also created much dysfunction in families and perceptions. The perceptions and expectations we hold onto have the tendency of being subjective due to the myths, as well as cultural ideals we hold as opposed to actual historical knowledge. There are myths about families that can either be functional, or dysfunctional. Functional myths bring people together, while dysfunctional myths are negative and can disrupt the family and their sense of well-being. This can also be correlated to interracial/interethnic families.

The belief that we can be autonomous and improve ourselves or our families without external assistance is a dream or nightmare, depending on your view. Self-sufficiency may be a form of survival, especially in families where there is and has been abuse. However, few families can say they are completely self-sufficient, the majority of people require some assistance sometime in their lives. This is evidenced by the support families receive from the government as well as neighbors or other family members. In addition to the projects and programs provided by the federal government, as well as the educational opportunities provided to our children and parents. Considering that self-sufficiency increases isolation and is responsible for many of the disconnections between, individuals, parents, extended family members and others with whom they should have closer relationships and bonds including teachers and advocates.

Recognizing that family self-sufficiency is a false myth, we also need to acknowledge that all today's families need help in raising children. The problem is not so much to reeducate parents but to make available the help they need and to give them enough power so that they can be effective advocates with and coordinators of the other forces that are bringing up their children-Kenneth

This sense of perfection is impossible to achieve because each and every family has problems; big or small. Our daily interactions with our family members is our reality while what we would like them to be is our sense of perfection. Television families that depict the handsome father and beautiful mother who have a large beautiful home and are very well off have clouded the image of the real family for many, especially young adults. These expectations for most cannot be met, therefore, contributing to dissatisfaction, dysfunction, and at times conflict.

Functionally Dysfunctional

Myths may help us maintain our emotional balance during any type of crisis situation. Giving us hope and belief in ourselves as well as the possibility for improvement. While dysfunction can disrupt family life with its negative