Crucibles are severe tests or trials that someone has experienced in his life. It also has to be a choice that the person has made; the outcome cannot be decided for them. Crucibles can be as simple as deciding to study for a test or as difficult as choosing to smoke a cigarette. Everyone has experienced crucibles in his life; crucibles change the person and helps him grow. If people never experience crucibles, then they will not learn and mature. Outcomes of crucibles are not distinct, it time to realize that experiencing this crucible has helped the person in many ways. I experienced a crucible when I was in the ninth grade. I did not know it at the time, but this crucible changed my life completely. My life was always simple. I was quiet and did not talk or hang out with many people, so I had only one best friend. My best friend, Alexa, was friends with me since elementary school. We never talked outside of school because I did not receive a phone until I was in the eighth grade …show more content…
Friendship can change a person, but it can also change in an instant. After my crucible with Alexa, I realized that it was the best thing that could have happened to me. Because of that incident, I became best friends with Nicole, and Nicole helped me redefine the meaning of a best friend. A best friend is someone that always has your back, supports you, and encourages you. Nicole helped me grow into someone that speaks her mind; she encouraged me not to be as shy as before. Because of the choice Alexa made, she realized that the friends she chose were not her real friends; she grew into a better, happier person. Alexa and I are friends again, but Nicole, and I are still best friends. My choice to stop being friends with Alexa helped both of us in many ways. The decision helped me grow, change, and experience the world in a different way. Without that crucible I would be the same shy, insecure, and quiet person I was