“There is a way to be good again.” Life is all about second chances, there are many mistakes committed by one in the past and the present. The novel, The Kite Runner explores the mistakes committed by Amir and his guilt of not stopping Hassan from getting raped by Assef. Rape is not just physical violence but it also hurts ones emotions and dignity, it is a metal as well as a physical domination that one can do to another. Hassan resembled the lamb which was usually killed during Eid; Amir described both Hassan and Sohrab as the lamb waiting to be slaughtered and he mentioned this during Hassan’s rape. Hassan and Sohrab were both sacrificed by being raped but both had a different reason for the sacrifice in Hassan’s case Amir sacrificed him …show more content…
Amir saw Hassan being sexually abused but he didn’t take any action against Assef and Lawrence was involved with Ziyad for Lindsie’s sexual abuse, both the victims had experienced something which was really terrible and happened against their will. Lindsie had flashbacks of the terrible incident and the society gave her unwanted titles, the interaction between Amir and Hassan became less because of Amir’s guilt. Throughout Amir’s childhood baba had treated Amir and Hassan equally. He took them places, bought them things and showed affection to both of them but Hassan had to be kept secretly because baba had him with a female servant who was from Hazara committee, which was not socially acceptable. If Amir had known that Hassan was his half-brother he may have defended him more than he may have been more loyal to him. But, Amir got to know later when this incident already passed time but it was too late and Amir had to live with regret for his cowardly behaviour when he saw Hassan being raped by …show more content…
One of the most common psychological consequences of rape is self-blame. Victims use self-blame as an avoidance-based coping tool. Self-blame slows or, in many cases, stops the healing process. Other common emotional and psychological effects of rape, Lindsie started blaming herself for the situation that was occurred but, it is not the victims fault if one is sexually abused because whatever happened, happened against ones will and will plays an important role. As said by Anurag Prakash Ray, “Don’t give so much importance to someone that you actually lose your importance in their life.” Amir was too blind to see what life was really like for the majority Afghans of the outside upper-class realm he grew up in. He also experienced his first notable crush, with the love at first sight phenomenon, she proved to be the one that he would later marry. Amir also experienced the horror of war, and its effect on his homeland, and former peers. Innocence and rape is the foundation for The Kite