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I Am A Ho, Hear Me Roar By Renee Bondy: An Analysis

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My challenge to my female friendship has changed me entirely. Personally I am still outgoing, but now I tend to try less to keep a friendship from breaking. Sadly, I can see myself giving up when I feel like I am losing a connection with them. I do think that how we refer to each other does effect and take a toll on a friendship. During the narrative assignment, I called my closest friend my ‘BFF’. As I am older now, I realize that this name has so much value and meaning to it, that it is hard to live up to. This naming created pressure; she had to live up to an expectation of being perfect and always there with cool and new ideas. I can see now that she was desperately trying to live up to my expectations of what a ‘BFF’ should look like. I was aiming too high, when I should know that no one is really perfect.

In the reading, ‘I am a Ho, Hear me Roar’ by Renee Bondy, I realized that “the language of female friendship, with its intimacy and emotional weight, is a complex and ongoing task”. Even though I wasn’t calling her by derogatory terms, we still initiated a naming ritual where we named each other’s as “BFF”; however, with this title came with great pressure …show more content…

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