Raymond Carver’s “Cathedral”, is a short story told in the first person about a man meeting his wife’s blind friend. Aside from a few spare moments in which the narrator discusses what he knows of the pasts of his wife and her friend, Robert, this short story focuses mostly on the events of their meeting. In the grand scheme of things, this meeting between three regular people on some random day is ultimately unimportant, but to the people in question, especially the narrator, this meeting is incredibly significant. In the way his character develops over the course of as few as ten mundane pages, this story shows how ignorance isolates, and that making an effort to shed that ignorance can create meaningful connections with others. As early …show more content…
During their channel surfing, Roberts tells the narrator that he’s all right with watching whatever because, “...I’m always learning something. Learning never ends. It won’t hurt me to learn something tonight.” This line represents the entirety of their time together, Robert learning as he always does, and the narrator following his lead, getting to know and learn about Robert, who he was so uncertain about, as he does the same for him. As they learn about one another, they’re also learning about other things from the TV, consolidating what little miscellaneous knowledge they have about cathedrals and other things related to them (285). The difference between the two of them guessing about cathedrals and the narrator making assumptions about blind people is that the activity is bringing them together instead of just being used to other someone else. In seeking knowledge about something they know little about, they are working together and forming the beginnings of a connection between them. When the narrator can’t adequately describe a cathedral to Robert, the same man he was criticizing not long before, he’s earnestly, truly apologetic; at this point, we can assume that he cares what Robert thinks of him, or else he wouldn’t be so hard on himself (286). This is also why he agrees to draw a cathedral with Robert, hand over hand, and shut his eyes then lie about having opened them when he really hadn’t. By this point, at the end of the story, the narrator has experienced some kind of change to himself as a person, considering Robert to possibly be something along the lines of a friend, at least enough to want to put himself in his shoes for a little