My utmost desire is to see my children doing well or do better than myself in the area of academic performance. I am inclined to the idea that if they are well educated; they will be more prepared to face the challenges in the competitive society and easier to pursue a good and stable career which normally lead to a better lifestyle. It is my wish that not only my own children but all the children will have a bright future, so that my children will be surrounded by successful people. All of us want to be good parents who love our children with all our heart. We are happy when our children are happy and a deep sense of satisfaction fills our heart when our children are successful. I am sure children love to please their parents by rewarding …show more content…
Firstly children should feel safe and to achieve this feeling, they must have a feeling of being accepted because they are acknowledged, respected, admired and approved. The feeling of being included among the others is so important to make one feel they are part of the community, whether in school or at home. Children will feel insecure and begin to enter into emotional trauma when they feel they are being judged, criticized, interrogated, and laughed at, mocked, negated or invalidated.
The second emotional foundation is to feel significant. To meet such emotional need, they adults must make the children feel they are important. To achieve such feeling, they must be appreciated and make them feel worthwhile. Make sure they are being heard, respected, helpful, useful, needed, valued, trusted, worthy and loved.
When I was in the new school, my father brought me to the school accompanied by his friend who was a very good friend of the principal. During the registration, I remembered the clerk in the school was very polite to me because the principal showed a kind of special love to me because of his friend. All the teachers cared about me and the students admired me when I was being introduced to my classmates. From then on, I received full support from my teachers and fellow classmates. I felt for the first time in my school days that I was being understood and the principal reassured me of his every effort to help me perform in my academic