Finally, To fit in or to Be yourself or…? well that 's a personal question who will you be; will you go along with conformity like Ms.Mcgregor believes we should because it runs society smoother. Furthermore will you be yourself like Thoreau believes we should, and not be dependent on other people. Or… will you find the healthy middle like a young author that wrote “Conformity vs. Individuality: A healthy middle” says “delicate balance between complete individuality and complete uniformity” she is trying to say that there is balance between individuality and conformity.