It is widely known that a lack of communication within a relationship almost always puts a detrimental strain on it. In Ernest Hemingway’s Hills Like White Elephants, the narrative revolves around an unspoken conflict between a woman named Jig and her significant other, referred to as the American man. In the story, Jig and the American man are travelling in Spain. At a train station, they are talking about an “operation” (Hemingway 476) Jig is to have; one can infer they are talking about an abortion. It is clear that the American man wants Jig to have the abortion, while Jig does not. Neither of them communicate clearly throughout the story, instead they are passive aggressive, saying things like “I wouldn’t have you do it if you didn’t want …show more content…
In the story, a girl named Jig and an unnamed American man are travelling in Spain. While waiting for a train, they have a few drinks, and the subject of “an operation” (476) comes up. This “operation” (476) is presumably an abortion, and the two characters have drastically different opinions on the matter. Jig wants to go through with the pregnancy, while her partner wants her to go through with the abortion. Eventually, Jig stops arguing, putting on a smile and telling the American man that she feels “fine” (478). This story is an excellent demonstration of how important communication is within a relationship. Due to the fact that the two characters don’t communicate well with each other, it leads Jig to be in an awkward position. She feels frustrated, isolated, and that she is damned if she keeps the baby, and damned if she doesn’t. With a healthier relationship, their situation and these feelings could have been entirely avoided, if only Jig and the American man had more openly communicated. We as human beings rely on communication to survive, and it is therefore inevitable that the relationships we create do as well. Without honesty and excellent communication, all relationships are doomed, no matter the