Life for Immigrant Parents vs. Life for Immigrant Children in The Namesake
Life is a luxury for certain immigrant parents, although a bearer of burden for the descendents who are raised in foreign countries. In Jhumpa Lahiri’s The Namesake, the main character, Gogol, is shown to have gone through the process of assimilation before he realizes the mistakes he made in his early life. While an apparent discrepancy is portrayed specifically between Gogol and his parents, life for the children of immigrants is quite difficult; primarily a result of their parents' decisions, the clash between foreign culture and customary practices from back home, and regretful flashbacks after a tragedy.
Parents’ decisions should compose the majority of our personality, essentially our life
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Ashoke and Ashima are quite tense as they find out that the letter from Ashima's grandmother hasn't come as of yet "and so [they agree] to put off the decision of what to name the baby until the letter comes, ignoring the forms from the hospital about filing for a birth certificate" (Lahiri 25). If it weren't for the customary duties, Ashoke and Ashima would have put an Indian name on Gogol that he would not regard as strange like he did when he became older. The fact of the matter is that Gogol is too young to understand his parents' circumstances at that time. Not to mention that Gogol doesn't respect his culture and customs in the sense that he doesn't feel that love for it which is very expected from a child who is raised in a foreign country. Like Gogol, Ashoke and Ashima are