Many people think marriage is a continuation of love, marriage equal to love. Indeed, marriage lasts longer than love；marriage is more dedicate than love；Marriage is more realistic than love. To a certain degree, marriage can change a person drastically from the outside to the inside. If you have ever fallen in love, you enable to know that love is scaling. However, different in marriage, it is warm. In the course, some people can't adapt to the temperature difference between marriage and love, so their marriage fall through. While other people master the difference, as a matter of course, they got a satisfactory marriage. In my opinion, marriage is the natural fruit of love. In ancient China, marriage upon arbitrary decision by a third …show more content…
For those shotgun marriages which are born for love, we should give encouragement. However, those situations are in minority after all. Most experts don't support this action, because they think it is the most dangerous marriage. Why do they say like that? In my view of point: first is about the betrothal gifts from the bridge groom to the bride’s family. When talking about the marriage after the pregnancy, many in-laws will give as less money as they can, which will make the wife’s family unhappy. Although the wife is not taken to earn money she will belong to others after so many years bringing of her parents. So it's understandable to ask certain betrothal gifts. However, most in-laws don't care about this. After the wife’s pregnancy, they may default on the bride price, which usually result in contradictions between the two in-laws. Second is about the weeding. In order to avoid the gossip, many women expect to get married as soon as possible after been pregnant. So the weeding will be inevitably hurried. However, what we each girl most expects is to wear a beautiful weeding dress, to experience a memorable weeding. But the premise of this weeding needs to be prepared. If they have a hasty marriage, it will seem a little