Marriage is a journey that experiences rough patches and hardships along the way. Upon entering into the institution, rarely does a young couple anticipate the thought of divorce along the path. The truth is, all marriages will face obstacles along and some couples pull through the hard times, and others are unable to move forward together.
For couples that can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, divorce may be the only viable option. Every relationship is unique, and divorce is a personal choice that only you can decide. Unless you are in immediate danger physically or mentally, slow down and first ask yourself the following questions if you are considering a divorce:
Do I hold unrealistic expectations of my marriage and my spouse?
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marriage counselor, couples therapist)? Divorce is a last-resort decision - one that should only be considered when all else fails. Before considering a divorce, really evaluate whether you and your spouse have made honest attempts to reconcile.
Do I want a divorce or a better marriage with my spouse? Sometimes when the road gets tough, abandoning ship seems like a viable option. However, there is a difference between a couple going through normal relationship trials and a couple with irreconcilable differences. Determining what exactly it is that you want to improve in the relationship can help derive a solution for marital
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Have you been open and honest and discussed the issues with your spouse? Have you sought help to improve this area of your lives? Whether the problem is a lack of intimacy or difficulties being intimate, many of these problems can be resolved. Everyone has their own ideal frequency and expectation when it comes to sex. Every couple will find differences between theirs and their partner’s desires and a married couple’s sex life may not be as smooth and perfect as Hollywood portrays. Establishing open communication about the issues and being willing to accommodate one another can save certain