Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory Of Love

Everyone want to know is how to have the perfect loving relationship? The key to having a success/perfect relationship accord to Robert Sternberg’s triangular theory of love has three components: intimacy, passion and commitment. Intimacy is the common bound with you have with that person. As well you share your secrets, no attraction and serious commitment you just like each other. Passion is also known as infatuation where it happens fast and it does not tend to last long. Is that you have attracted to them when you see that person. As well it based on attraction and chemisty.Commitment is to see yourself with that person for the rest of your life. If you don’t have any of these three components there is no love .The best part of using Sternberg

Linking is having intimacy ,Sternberg says that this intimate liking characterizes true friendship,in which a person feels a boundedness.Companionate is imitmacy and commitment .For example it often found in marriage that the passion gone out of marriage . Sternberg’s theory of love is seen in movies and in television shows. My favorite television shows of all times are Gossip girl, Friends, One tree hill and vampire Diaries. Each of these shows is example of Sternberg’s theory of love. The one show that I going to talk about Gossip girl. The character of Chuck and Blair their relationship is really strong and its really silly to say it but I want someone that would love me the way chuck loves Blair .There relationship is a Romantic love/ Consummate . Even at point when they cannot stand each other they always seem to come back to each other. In season one episode 8 Blair told Chuck, “He loves me. Where every he is he will call at midnight you’ll see.” Then chuck says. “Care to make a wager? If he calls I will leave you alone forever if he doesn’t you spend the night with me. They made the bet .Nate her boyfriend at the time did not show up for her birthday party or give her a

Chuck was mean to Blair at the start because he was repressing his feelings for her. Blair: Chuck! Stop! Don't go. Or if you have to leave, let me come with you.Chuck: I appreciate the concern.Blair: No. You don't. You don't appreciate anything today. But I don't care. Whatever you're going through, I want to be there for you.Chuck: We talked about this. You are not my girlfriend. Blair: But I am me and you are you....We're Chuck and Blair.... Blair and Chuck. The worst thing you've ever done, the darkest thought you've ever had, I will stand by you through anything.Chuck: And why would you do that? Blair: Because I love you. Chuck: Well that's too bad. Threw the whole series Chuck and Blair relationship start to developed consummate love. He didn't have a mother growing up or a father who cared about him so he treated others cruelly. He thought his love for Blair was a sign of weakness and it took him ages to admit to it and deal with it. He really matured in the series