Romantic Massage

Learn Preparations for Giving a Romantic Massage

Administering a massage is a loving and therapeutic way to connect with one's mate. Exploring each other's bodies deepens intimacy and increases a sense of connection. Couples can learn to give a holisitic massage, using the right book as a guide. Look for one that contains helpful appendices which may include charts on acupoints and a guide for aromatherapy oils. It should also take you beyond the basic parameters outlined in this article.

First and foremost, both partners should be relaxed and comfortable prior to a massage. You don't want to pass any negative energy to your partner. For the same reason, do not administer a rub-down if you are anxious, melancholy or otherwise emotionally upset.

Padding and blankets or towels may be placed on hard floors, but it should accommodate the person receiving the massage, while also covering a sufficient amount of the floor for the person giving the massage to move around the prone person comfortably. In the case that not enough cushioning is available, it may be easier to utilize a bed.

Further, consider using extra padding under certain parts of the recipient's body, for example if he or she has a stiff neck or sore knees. Prior to beginning the massage, it would be wise to read the book's introduction for any special instructions. For instance, you will need to know not to rub too hard over varicose veins, and not to massage specific parts of the body if there is illness or injury.

Extravagant massage oils are not necessary; vegetable oils or baby oil will work just fine. Use just enough to alleviate any uncomfortable friction; your hands should glide easily over your partner's skin. Essential oils may be added, but they are very potent, so find a tutorial, if you have no experience with using