Rufus And Alice's Relationship

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Title: Rufus and Alice’s Relationship
The Relationship of Rufus and Dana, severely twisted and strained over the time they’ve known each other, is a staple throughout the book and reminds the reader that even with Danas influence in his life Rufus cannot become an improved man. It’s not that he does not wish to better himself, but that he is incapable of doing so. The influence of one's parents and the collective mindset of the time that one is born in are the utmost considerable factors in a child's attitude. When we first meet Rufus we are able to obtain a quick glance at who he will become as he grows up. Rufus continuously refers to Dana with derogatory terms, even after she scolds him and gives him a few other less insulting words he is allowed to use. This habit is one that frequently recurs and worsens as we get farther and farther into the book. …show more content…

Now this might be perceived as an act of kindness or even love, grievously this is not the case with Rufus. Soon it is made clear that he does not intend to treat Alice as an equal or even what would be considered the correct way to treat one's wife at the time of the book. Alice’s hatred for him festers and blooms into a hatred of herself for being used by him. The effects of this new hate shows itself by Alice lashing out at Dana and others while in the beginning of the book being a kind hearted