Empathy can be defined as the ability to understand and share feelings with others. Often in life, we find it difficult to relate to others based on our past experiences. As a result, invidiuals may lack the abiliy to connect and develop a relationship. Margaret Laurence gives two opposing viewpoints in "The Loons." Laurence utilizes Vanessa, a girl from a wealthy family, and her perception of a girl from a minority group who frequently faces problems and is shunned by her peers. Margaret Lauence makes the argument that people must first endure similar hardships in order to empathise with one another using the juxtaposition of characters Vanessa and Piquette, the relationship between Vanessa and her mother, and the symbolism of the loons. …show more content…
Our experiences early on in life have a direct effect on our overall world view and perception of others. When considering the perspective of another person, Reflecting on a similar situation we've experienced makes it easier to understand how one is feeling and can result in compassion for their plight. Without a similar situation being experienced, one may find they lack empathy for another. It is evident that Vanessa makes a vain attempt to befriend with Piquette at the beginning of the story. She first endeavors to play with Piquette, who declines by stating “I ain’t a kid.” despite the irony. Due to the difficulties she has endured early in life, Piquette is unable to empathise with Vanessa and participate in typical childhood behaviors. Her lack of connection to other kids her age also contributes further to her inability to relate with Vanessa. Like the loons, Piquette has often attempted to separate herself from humanity. The neglect and abuse she’s faced leaves her guarded and weary of people attempting to help her. Piquette is half French and indigenous, causing her and her family to be shunned by the community. After the abandonment of their mother, Piquette is often responsible to perform the cooking and cleaning tasks in their house. This leads to the abandonment of her youth and her being forced to grow up quickly. Although unaware of this, Vanessa behaves insensibly to Piquette on multiple occasions, asking, “Do you like this place?” and, “I love it, we come here every summer.” referring to their lakeshore cabin. Despite her age and naivety, she’s aware that Piquette doesn’t have access to the same commodities as her. In this quote she’s reminding Piquette of what she lacks, indirectly insulting her. This explains the defensive tone Piquette responds with, saying “So what.” Vanessa and her unbeknownst power poses a threat to Piquette, and she remains