Unconnectable The difficulty of growing up on the higher functioning end of the spectrum can only be imagined. In the novel, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time written by Mark Haddon, Christopher John Francis Boone, a boy who is 15 years and 3 month old, has to deal with and adapt to his many problems. No matter if it is to show love for people by a hug or holding his mother’s hand, after he has not seen her for the two years, Christopher will avoid being touched. Christopher does not have emotions nor does he understand other people’s emotions. By the end of the novel Christopher starts to figure out that his father cares for him and would never hurt him. Christopher avoids being touched at all cost because he does not know how to connect with other people and he does not realize the intentions of others. …show more content…
Christopher will not hug or be hugged by anybody, not even his parents. After Christopher is taken to the police station because he hits a police officer, his father demands to see him. To show his love for his father, Christopher has to spread his “fingers out in a fan” (16). His father does the same and puts his hand on Christopher's. Christopher does this to show his love because he does “not like hugging people” (16). Christopher refuses to be touched because he does not realize what people are doing because he can not socially connect with them. Christopher does not realize that people do things to help him in life and they do not want to harm in any
Christopher’s odd paralysis attack after reading hidden letters from his mother emphasize some processes of his already mentioned, and seem to negate others. From the prior readings, it was deduced as a class consensus that Christopher has difficulty showing emotion, yet he becomes really shaken up after learning his mother is alive, implying his father had lied to him twice (I wrote implying because during Christopher’s panic attack he says “And I could tell that he was in the room, but his voice sounded tiny and far away…” on page 113, so he may not even had heard his father’s first apologies.) If this was a case of being emotionally disturbed, shocked, or even angry at his father, it would make this situation even more meaningful when analyzing
which unfortunately led him to reject and avoid any type of close relationships that he had made on his journey as Christopher did not want them to interfere with his decision to travel to Alaska on his own terms, as well as becoming completely concerned for his safety and welfare, which he almost failed to do so when he met an older man named Ron who deeply cared and loved Chrisopher as he wanted to adopt him into his family. Along the way Christopher starts to show his hatred towards authority as he goes on and shows multiple ways on how he avoided having to follow the law by breaking a lot of safety awareness laws which makes him an idiot as he risked his entire life and made it very difficult for others to come to his aid incase of an
That started the summer he graduated from high school. His parents explained, “He could be generous and caring to a fault, but he had a darker side as well, characterized by monomania, impatience, and unwavering self-absorption, qualities that seemed to intensify through his college years (120).” The event that created Christopher to become more isolated was the father keeping a secret of having another family. After finding out about his father secret family Christopher started containing a dark side that wanted no part of human contact. He wanted ultimate freedom from individuals and society that led him not wanting to have any long-term intimacy relationships with the individuals he met throughout his journey.
Raising a child like Christopher is very difficult. Christopher often disappears in the middle of the night to go out for walks and quickly becomes overwhelmed in new environments. For the better well-being of Christopher, Ed tends to be very overprotective of him. An example of this is shown when Christopher wants to do detective work to find out who killed Wellington. This idea suggests that Christopher has to talk to strangers which he is not comfortable with.
And yet this concealment of emotion dissuades those who would offer friendship in spite of his lineage, leaving him alone. Despite his attempts to ignore his solitude, to not let this loneliness affect him, he is human after all, and Christopher does not know how to simply turn off sentiment. This incapability frightens him, it is a weakness and in his world of darkness, a weakness can simply not be afforded. So he hides it best he can, holding it tight between his fingers and never letting go. It grows within him as he matures, and the stinging seed of loneliness grows into a bitter flower of resentfulness as those around him leave him seperate from their games and
Christopher has think idea about his mom that he finds out shortly in the story that wasn 't true. He has the idea that his mother is dead and died in the hospital from being sick. He doesn 't think much about this, he doesn 't really seem concerned or really even sad. Later on he finds out that his mother and his neighbors husband had an affair and that she didn 't die she just left his father. when he find out about this he still doesn 't think much of the emotional part of what 's going on, he just wants to figure out the mystery of who killed wellington.
Christopher’s parents, Ed Boone and Judy Boone, are very important people in Christopher’s life, as well as important characters in this novel. They play a big part in his life, he wouldn’t be the kind of person he is without their constant lectures and care that they provide. Both, the mother and the father, love and care for Christopher. “She had sent me lots of love and had my Get Well card on the table beside her bed.” Before his mother passed away, and even during her slow death, Judy continued to send love to her son.
Boone continues to prove how appropriate he is by being more careful when making accommodations for his son than Mrs. Boone. For example, Christopher despises being touched, so before Christopher is interrogated, Mr. Boone “[holds] up his right hand and [spreads] his fingers out in a fan...and [Mr. Boone and Christopher make their] fingers and thumbs touch each other” (16). By respecting his son’s desires, Mr. Boone is able to keep them both happy in a unique way even though it is not how he likes to express his love. Even so, there is a part where Mr. Boone touches Christopher, but he explains, “I’m going to have to touch you, but it’s going to be all right” (115). He knows his son does not like touching and he wants to respect that, but in their current situation, he needs to touch him.
He is our protagonist and as we come to learn he isn't the nicest one out there, but this is mainly for his autism coming into play during most of his adventures. Near the end of the book christopher is forced to learn how to get over his fears to be able to go to his mothers but in his own unique way, “And it was like counting and saying, ‘Left, right, left, right, left, right. . .’ which Siobhan taught me to do to make myself calm. And I was saying in my head, ‘Train coming. Train stopped.
On the contrary, he also deals with problems and issues that are felt by every human on the planet, allowing the reader to feel empathy for him. His social tendencies show that he may suffer from a social disability. Despite this, Christopher goes on a journey, displaying courage and the benefits and the new beginnings that will happen. In addition, Christopher becomes much confident and a better and stronger person than he ever was. During his search he meets new people who become his friend resulting in unexpected answers to be brought to light.
Christopher explains that he has difficulty figuring out people’s emotions from their facial expressions. He can easily recognize sad and happy faces, but when his therapist, Siobhan, draws some pictures of other emotions, he finds the faces are confusing and is “unable to say what these meant” (3). So he has to memorize the exact meaning of each face and quickly determine what face others are making when they talk to him. When his father lies to him about his mother’s death, he tries to figure out what he means how and his father feels: “I can't tell what [people] are thinking. It is like being in a room with a one-way mirror in a spy film''(22).
He causes Christopher to act secretively, as he does not explain what was wrong in the situation. This happened when Christopher was inquiring about Wellington- his father responds by telling him to ‘Not go around sticking your ******* nose in other people’s business’ (82), but not fully elaborating on how so. This leaves Christopher to try testing a gray area, especially since he is autistic and will take everything in a literal manner.
Christopher grew up without knowing much about the world and life it self. He acts as what many would say a child. This is due to his Aspergers. In the beginning of the novel Christopher explains what he thinks of life.
This proves how much father loves Christopher because he will sacrifice hugging his son for the most part and that should hurt a lot not being able to hug his son. There are lots of sacrifices Christopher’s father makes for his son, like not being able to hug him, or having to deal with him being “different” but he sacrifices it all because he loves Christopher. Furthermore, Christopher’s father is not perfect. He makes mistakes, some really big ones. Father hid Christopher’s mother from him for a really long time, but he did it to protect Christopher because he loves him and won’t let anything bad happen to Christopher.
Keep in mind that Christopher has trusted Siobhan with all of his secrets that he does not even tell his dad which gives him someone he trusts. Siobhan is like a therapist for Christoper, he tells her everything about what is going on in his life right then and there, He was talking about how his father says that he shouldn't be talking to or about Mrs. Shears because he doesn't like her. " And Siobhan said, "Well, Mrs. Shears is a friend of yours, isn't she. A friend of you and your