The Journey To Become A Starr Grief by definition is how people respond to the loss of a person who has died. On average it takes a person one to two years to grieve the loss of someone, But does that person really heal or does that person just forget. In Angie Thomas’s book The Hate U Give, 16 year old Starr finds strength within herself through grief and experiences growth with the help of the community around her, allowing her to find her voice and confidence within, which gives her the courage to fight for justice. Although Starr struggles immensely through her healing journey, she is strong enough to not let the darkness consume her. Her family gave her light in this time of darkness allowing her to grow and gain strength within herself. …show more content…
The events of Khalil's murder lead to Starr having vivid dreams of Khalil and also of Natasha, her childhood best friend that was also murdered right in front of her at the age of 10. Starr is not a stranger to the feeling of grief but this time it feels more intense than ever as she feels somewhat at fault for Khalil’s murder, maybe if she said something, maybe if she got out the car to hold his wounds to stop the blood. This all connects back to Natasha, when she was shot Starr froze and did nothing to help her as well, but there's only so much you can do when you’re in shock. Furthermore, Starr has a great support system behind her that is not allowing her to weigh the death of Khalil. Starr’s mother, in particular, encourages Starr to get back into routine and never judges Starr when she needs to cry; “ I’m crying out of nowhere, hunched over my bed as the iron in my hand spits out steam. Momma takes it before I burn the Williamson crest on my polo”(Thomas 67). As Starr grieves, her mother is non judgemental and understanding of Starr, she allows Starr to express her emotions. Events like Khalil’s death stick with people forever and Khalil’s murder will never erase from Starr’s mind. Additionally with the support and love of her family Starr begins to gain some confidence to speak about the tragic night. Her mother and uncle Carlos provide her comfort; her mother being by her side and Carlos outside the door;‘“All right then.’... ‘Don’t be nervous, Starr. …show more content…
Garden Heights has supported Khalil from the first moment it was revealed he was murdered at the hands of a white police officer, protests and riots consume the Garden as the police try to justify the murder of Khalil and deem it as an accident; “ There are more people out here than in the church, holding posters with Khalil’s face on them and signs saying ‘Am I Next?’ and ‘Enough is Enough!’”(Thomas 133). Anyone who knew Khalil and knew his character was out on that street protesting, Starr is not alone in this fight for justice. All of Garden Heights wants justice just as bad and will fight. Khalil’s death in a way brought Starr back to reality. Therefore Starr’s eyes are finally opening up to what is being said around her, at her predominately white school by Hailey. Starr re-enters school, her mind comepeltely shifted causing her to be more aware of what is being said. “‘Dammit, Starr!’ Hailey yells, recovering the ball. She passes it to me. ‘Hustle! Pretend the ball is some fried chicken. Bet you’ll stay on it then’ … I can’t believe she said … she shouldn’t have. No way. The ball falls out my hands. I walk off the court. I’m breathing hard, and my eyes burn'' (Thomas 112). As Hailey says this microaggression, Starr stops in time full of
“But everyone was watching, everybody was waiting to see what I would do. ‘I wasn’t talking to you,’… ’I didn’t want your help. How you have ruined the Sausalito! You have ruined the ball!”
The book focuses on how Khalil was murdered and how he needs justice. Although, has never mentioned the fact that he lived, until the riot. Like Starr clearly states “His life mattered”. Unfortunately, this is not just about Khalil, all their lives mattered. Which is why Starr makes a difference.
Sometimes things happen and you need to be sympathetic. Your personality might be very goofy and fun but you won’t be acting like that at a funeral. The way Starr Learns how to be accept herself and be herself could help other people that also feeling the struggle of not
The Hate u Give The Hate u Give, written by Angie Thomas is a book that explores themes of racism, hate, and grief. The book is titled this because it reflects the central theme of the overall story. The story follows a girl named Starr whose childhood friend is murdered in an act of police brutality. Following this, Starr begins to confront the hate within her community to try to take a stand against it.
The Hate U Give is about a 16-year-old girl named Starr Amara Cater who has to shift between two different worlds. She has to go through a phase of difficulties because of her race which plays a big part in her life. Starr witnesses an eye-opening event that involves seeing her own friend get killed by a police officer. Unlike most people in her community, Starr decides to speak up about the event. She was one of the few who was able to speak up about this situation going on in society.
I look at the cops again. ‘You hear me? Khalil lived!’” (Thomas 412) So, in this Starr is feeling disappointed, mad, and most importantly sad, because Khalil will not get justice due to the cops not listening to Starr.
She started off as an insecure woman. Her heart was worn from heartbreak from the lack of reciprocated love and the insecurities that haunted her every day. She was a woman of God but that did not mean her life would be easy. It was quite the opposite. She grew up with a family that had a heart for others.
As a member of this movement, Starr participates in many violent riots, especially the Magnolia Riot, where she steals an amplifier and chants about how “Everyone wants to know how Kahlil died… But this isn't about how Kahlil died, It’s about the fact that he lived, His life mattered, Kahlil Lived!!” (412). Starr's message was finally set free. With the power of her voice, Starr fights back against One-Fifteen as she breaks her deadly code-switching cycle.
Starr saw this as her fault because she made a statement to the police and felt that she forgot key details to show that Khalil was not a bad person. She also felt guilty for Khalil’s death and for the fact that if she did something different or said something different she could be dead too. This is survivor’s guilt, which is what happens when people make it out of a bad situation alive when someone else did not. She feels guilty that she made it but Khalil didn’t, and she asks herself questions about why she survived. The grief she was experiencing even played a part in her losing relationships to people close to her, and it caused her to have nightmares about her friends both dying.
Clare's decision to pass is driven by a desire for safety and security, but it ultimately leads to a sense of isolation and disconnection from her black heritage. Clare's passing also has a profound impact on Irene, who feels a sense of betrayal when she discovers that her childhood friend, who she had believed to be a fellow black woman, is passing as white. When Irene confronts Clare about her decision to pass, she exclaims, "You're a Negro and you ought to be proud of it!" (Larsen
Starr’s experience throughout this novel changes; she experiences many instances of discrimination, and racism throughout the book. With all of this weighing her down she manages to
“Pride in Whitman High’s basketball team runs real deep around our way, so a lot of people didn’t like that one bit. My main man, Nasir, straight up stopped talking to me.” Randy Ribay opens with this quote in the first chapter of After the Shot drops. Bunny Tompson is a high school basketball player who has transferred to a private school to have a better chance to be recruited by colleges. His best friend Nasir feels betrayed by Bunny.
In the beginning of the story, Starr had two identities her Garden Heights, and her Williamson Prep identity; Starr struggled trying to find out herself especially when she was in two completely different places, so she tries to act a certain way to fit in. An example of this is when the author writes “As long as I play it cool and keep to myself, I should be fine. The ironic thing is through, at Williamson I don’t have to ‘play it cool’- I’m cool by default because I’m one of the only black kids there. I have to earn coolness in Garden Heights” (Thomas 11). Later into the story she slowly starts to combined the her two identities when she is talking to her boyfriend, Chris, the author shows this by writing “‘Because,’ I croak.
The constant shifting between lives has caused a rift in Starr's life, creating a sense of conflict within herself and her identity. In the first few minutes of the film, we listen as Starr describes her need to separate her true self from the version she presents to her white peers as she code-switches to prevent herself from being seen as "too hood", and suppresses aspects of her identity to prevent being discriminated against. Acts like this are created due to the pressure of assimilation, which is a survival tactic among many racial-ethnic minority group members. Although it causes the individual to become less authentic, it helps them become one with the crowd, which can be seen with Starr as we observe her changes within the film. However, this battle with her identity is not only shown at school but when she returns home.
The media's portrayal of Khalil affects Starr by making her doubt memories and emotions towards Khalil. The media pressures Starr to conform to this narrative, which causes internal conflict and makes it hard for her to speak the truth, which is seen through her hesitation to speak to the