girl with sex toy on the bed
I once had a boyfriend break my vibrator by throwing it on the floor and smashing it. He said he hated it, but he was really jealous of it. It could give me an orgasm and he couldn 't, but that 's only because he didn 't listen to me in the bedroom. In short, he blamed my vibrator for his inability to listen.
He 's not the only guy who hates sex toys. Many think that toys are doing something to their girlfriend that they can 't, so they skip the toys completely, which is a HUGE mistake. Sex toys can be a valuable part of any couples sex life, and they should be embraced, not shunned!
Not convinced? Following are my top 5 reasons you should make sex toys your friend in the bedroom.
1. Orgasm Without Toys Can Be
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Lastly, sex toys are something that is shared only between you. You are not going to tell your co-workers, friends, or family members about the latest sexual experience you had with your partners vibrator or spanking paddle. This kind of intimate secret will help you feel more connected than you do with other people. Plus, as you sit at your friend 's barbeque and imagine the naughty things you did with her last night, you will feel connected with her, whether she is there or not.
5. Sex Toys Can Help You Last Longer AND Give Her Pleasure
Sex toys are not all about foreplay and dildo sex.
You 've probably heard that cock rings can help you last longer during sex, but did you know that you can buy them with attachments that pleasure her at the same time? In fact, there are many different types of these toys.
For instance, this one is for sale on Amazon, and it has a flickering tongue to go along with the ring. If you signed up to my newsletter, and got your free eBook, then you know that this kind of stimulation is one of the best ways to help a woman achieve orgasm fast.
I 've said it before, and I 'll say it again - just because you can last a long time, it doesn 't mean that she is getting more pleasure from it. It can get boring and start to hurt if it lasts too long without pleasure