The Influence Of The Father In Trap Lines

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The parents have a great power of influence to their children since they could be the role models who the children follow, their actions and attitudes could also affect the way how the children treat other people. In story Young Man’s Folly, the mother is a single parent who caring about her son all the time, and in the story Trap Lines, the father is an aboriginal who is always finding a way to show his love to his son. Both of the two parents in the stories can be regarded as patterns in many ways, since their children both understand and accept their love eventually. However, the difference methods of parenting children lead to a controversial topic that whether the mother in Young Man’s Folly or the father in Trap Lines is the better parent. …show more content…

Thereby, her son understood his mother’s love and was no longer blaming on her. Standing on the father’s point of view in Trap Lines, he had too much tolerance to his son. Christopher, the son in Trap Lines, a teenager who was always impatient to his father and interrupted the conversation with his father, under the influence of the adolescence. however, the father had never been blamed on him or criticized him, which caused Christopher's incapability to recognize his impolite behaviors and disrespectful attitude toward his …show more content…

The father had already noticed that he had trouble in chatting with his son, therefore, he talked with his son more frequently to deal with the problem as well as promote mutual feelings. However, as the father was scanty of words, their conversations always ended with failure. It brought negative impact to his son which was that he became more and more reluctant to tell his father things related to himself. The father's inappropriate method even worsened the relationship between himself and his son, which lessened the positive effect that the father could have on his son. This kind of way to treat the kids are unacceptable by any of the good parents.
The mother was able to find the direct solution that suit the specific situation the most, which she let her son to talk with his father himself since her son was not willing to hear what she said, leading him to deal with his issue by himself, while the father in Trap Lines, a parent who was fear of language, handled the problem by communicating. He was lack of the ability to choose the way that he was good at to solve problems. Therefore, the mother resolved the conflict more advisable than the father, which made her a greater parent than the