Although it’s more complicated for the mother to undermine the situation a father have some social disadvantages too in relation to the agreement was made in relation to abortion . A father or partner become lonely in attend to find response to a decision was made, and become isolated from the family, friends, and become alcoholic. even do men was agree to the abortion decision with the partners mens feels guilty. Sometimes men feel like a failure because they can’t afford a child or another child. It may be a goal to become financially stable so that can have a child someday. Or, may feel that working all the time, can’t be with her and the children. More and more families are relying on two, or even three paychecks to get by. Or, may feel …show more content…
Research evidence now suggests that following the loss of their unborn child some men may in fact grieve more than the mother. According to this same research, men are more likely to feel despair after a pregnancy loss, including a pervasive sense of hopelessness, one of the signs of chronic grief (Stinson, et al., "Parents' Grief Following Pregnancy Loss: A Comparison of Mothers and Fathers," Family Relations 41(1992): 218-223). Men's lives contain greater attachments and are more profoundly affected by fatherhood than is usually assumed. One father whose child died from abortion described his grief this way: "I wasn't in the room; I wasn't even in the clinic that day. But in my mind, I've been there a million times since. I've been there watching, breaking, wanting to rescue you. In my mind I need to be a hero not a killer, the man who didn't flee. But I am not. I am the man I fear I see."(National Catholic Bioethics Center). now is the beginning in see the extent of the harm abortion visits on women, men and the surviving children. It is clear that in addition to the other victims of abortion, men too suffer. They too pay a high price for reproductive "freedom."