The Role Of Family In The Igbo Family

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Family and the relationship one makes with another is a critical thing in the Ibo society. Normally, these families are intricate with many different stems and branches. Polygamy, a common thing in this society, is the practice of having more than one wife or husband at a time. This practice in turn makes an average family tree in the Ibo society increase dramatically. According to the Ibo culture, all relationships emanates from the family. Our view of family is very different than those of the Western World. Americans and Europeans both believe that family is restricted to only one father, one mother, and biological or adopted children. What differs from this to the Ibo people is that they view family as people that live under the same roof, regardless of the fact that they may not be related by blood. …show more content…

These evident members are the Father, the Mother, and other siblings whether adopted or blood related. The father's main role in a family is to lead the others by example in events like public forums, as well as being able to cultivate, grow, and develop the wealth and resources of the family. The mother’s typical role in the family is to keep the father inspired and motivate him to come up with new ideas that propel the family to progress and development. It is her responsibility to keep track of the family’s wealth and resources, as well as make sure every member of the family is feeling comfortable at home. Most importantly in the Ibo society, it is the mother’s job to love the father, cook his food, and of course keep the house spotless. Lastly, children and other dependents are supposed to be under the influence of the father or mother. There is no crossed relationships, therefore, the boys always work with the father and the girls always work with the