Throughout The Things They Carried, author, and narrator, Tim O’Brien uses what the soldiers figuratively carry, cowardice and loss, to explain what effect the war had on them. According to O’Brien, these two intangibles turn into a physical burden the soldiers are forced to carry because of the psychological effects of war. His main purpose for writing The Things They Carried is for the reader to be able to feel the same reality the soldiers feel as a result of fighting in the war.
One of the main themes of these war stories is the fear of being labeled a coward by the people of the soldiers’ home country. The first example of cowardice in The Things They Carried when O’Brien received his draft notice and decided to go to Canada, temporarily,
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O’Brien explains what he thinks about the draft by combining his feelings of confusion and anger. After spending some time in Canada, O’Brien …show more content…
After Bowker returned home from Vietnam, he had the most trouble, out of all the soldiers, re-adjusting to everyday life. According to O’Brien, Bowker is someone who believes the success of men is measured by the amount of awards and/or medals they receive. As a result of the relationship between Bowker and his father, a former veteran, Norman feels the need to tell people about his experiences in order to get approval from his father. However, because of the horrors he witnessed in Vietnam, he felt it was better if people did not know. For example, the text states, “It [the town] did not know shit about shit, and did not care to know.” (O’Brien 137). Since Bowker feels it is his fault that Kiowa died, he cannot come to tell his father the truth of what happened overseas because of the assumed rejection Bowker believes he will receive. In the chapter “Speaking of Courage”, Norman has an imaginative conversation with his father about his time in Vietnam. He fantasizes relaying to his father the story behind why he almost earned the Silver Star and how he thinks his father will respond. For instance, O’Brien writes, “He [Bowker] looked out across the lake and imagined the feel of his tongue against the truth…’Seven. Count ‘em. You weren't a coward either.’ ‘Well, maybe not. But I had the cancel and I blew it.’” (O’Brien 136). Here, Bowker imagines telling his