In the story Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? by Joyce Carol Oates, the main character Connie is continuously trying to find herself and become more independent. Constant fights with her mother lead Connie wanting more freedom and to live her life the way she sees fit and finds an escape in music. Throughout the story, Oates places emphasis on music in each scene, whether it be related to Connie’s second personality, at the diner or the music being played in Arnold Friends’ car. This recurrence of music acts as a symbol for Connie’s hunger for independence. In the beginning of the story, Connie is said to have two sides to her character. One side of Connie is expressed when she is home, where her actions can be described as “childlike bobbing” (Oates 338). Or the side that is exposed when she is out with her friends and described to be “languid enough to make anyone to think she was hearing music in her head” (Oates 338). When Oates says, “hearing music in her head,” it’s as if she is daydreaming. Knowing Connie’s behavior and drive to want to be …show more content…
In the story, Connie hangs out with her friends and goes to a diner where she can flirt with boys without parental supervision. Connie’s reaction to the freedom at the diner is depicted as “Her face gleaming with joy had nothing to do with Eddie or this place: it might have been the music” (Oates 339). This being said, while at the diner, it’s not even the place that brings her joy, it’s the freedom she feels when she is on her own, it’s the “music.” When Connie is leaving the diner, which was essentially her way of living out her freedom, where she was able to flirt with boys and show that second side to her “She couldn’t hear the music” (Oates 339). Now that Connie is going back home where she no longer has that mock adult life, she can’t hear the music meaning she is giving up that freedom to go back to the life of adolescence at