Young Adults and the Effects of Divorce on their Intimate Relationship
Several things cause adults to get divorced. Many of these things can be financial, lack of communication, infidelity and lack of love for each other. What happens when the children of parents that are going through these things are witnessing these things from their parents? Many of these children have a cacophony of things that is being inodiated in their minds that can cause depression, concentration issues at school, and behavior issues at home and at school. What effect does this have on the children of these couples who are getting divorced? They are more likely not to trust others, or lose a connection with the parent that leaves the home. What happens to the psyche of these same children when they grow into adults and decide to enter long-term relationships? There are many children of divorce delay marriage or avoid it all together choosing to
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So, if they see discord, lack of communication and lack of love, and have a higher percentage to have their own marriages end in divorce. Many children from divorce have developed a mind of strife that was shaped by their parents conflict when they were children. As they see or hear the many things that their parents did and said that resulted in their parents’ divorce this makes an imprint on their psyche. So, they can subconsciously retain this information and have it come out in their own long-term relationships. (Chi, et al, 2010) article “The Effect of Parental Divorce on Young Adults’ romantic relationship dissolution: what makes a difference?” suggests that young adults from divorced families were more likely to gain the message that relationships are not permanent (Chi, et, al, 2010). Amato states that divorce among adult children, however was elevated only when parents had divorced (Amato,