People in society all try to be accepted, this can impact people’s relationships with eachother. Almost always people want to blend with the crowd and stay with all the trends that society has. Two people in a relationship can want each other to blend in and not be noticed exaggeratedly and be the most “normal” they can be. In literature characters often have relationships with other characters, but society may try to be “ordinary” from the conformity of society. In the book Stargirl by Jerry Spinelli, the protagonist Leo, has an important relationship with Stargirl, which reveals the theme of maintaining individuality, because they both deal with pressures of conformity in their high school. In the book Leo has an important relationship with Stargirl which shows the theme of pressures of conformity. Leo is pressured from society to make Stargirl “Susan” or “typical”. When Stargirl has become Susan and fits in, she is selfless and says, “She (Dori, Stargirls friend) doesn’t understand how important it is being popular”. This tells that Stargirl when she becomes popular isn’t herself and cares about what other people think, this can happen when a character is pressured to be popular and “average”. This affects …show more content…
Leo pressures Stargirl to be like a “typical” girl at Mica High, not thinking about how Stargirl feels and how she will always try to be herself, even if she is “normal” for a little bit. When Stargirls reveals that she will always be herself and not Susan, she becomes her quirky and bizarre self. One quote from Leo is, “As she (Stargirl when she becomes herslef again) had predicted, I did not ask her to the Ocotillo Ball” (167). This tells that Leo is so self-conscious and he wants to fit very badly that he won’t ask his own girlfriend to the dance because she’s being herself and different. Leo and people at Mica High and in the real world want to be accepted and “standard” by the
Shooting Stars, written by Molly Newman, is a play about friendship, teamwork, and ambition. There are eight girls that are part of the Indiana Shooting Star basketball team. Their couch is a man named Cassius. The play begins with the girls in a locker room, Christmas week, hours from game time. The girls talk and tease each other.
A multitude of books in all generations, from Anthem by Ayn Rand to Divergent by Veronica Roth, often revolve around one simple topic: the power of being different from everyone else. In Fahrenheit 451, by Ray Bradbury, the reader is introduced to Guy Montag, who ostensibly is conformed to his indoctrinating society, but inwardly knows something is missing from the society. However, Montag’s meeting of one person—one “different” person—leads him to truly discover the aspect of life that society has tried to hide and destroy from the population; the spread of creative ideas. Fahrenheit 451 elucidates how the mindless pull of sameness can degrade a society, and how one individual who can escape complete conformity to a mind-numbing
Throughout the book, Leo, who clearly identifies himself as a Mica High Student, an Arizonian, and an American, tries to figure out Star Girl. “We wanted to define her, to wrap her up as we did each other, but we could not seem to get past "weird" and "strange" and "goofy." Her ways knocked us off balance. ” Star Girl is…herself. She is free of labels and does what she pleases.
Conformity is very important to society. Many people conform every day. Conformity is important because it brings people together. Among the Hidden, in this story we see people conforming because of the situation they are in. Society encourages conformity through higher level people, social groups, and media.
Black holes are very huge formations in the space that have a tremendous tendency for absorbing everything in the surrounding, and so our personalities are. We are born as void-memory children who couldn’t differentiate between right and wrong. However, we were also programmed in a certain manner that tells us what we are supposed to be, or exhibit. Socialization is a main clue which is regarded as a programming utility for our personalities. Therefore, Salma Shalash, in The Other Face, had a desire in shedding the light over the effect of personality programming, socialization, on relationships, with respect to gender considerations.
‘’I was a coward. I went to the war’’ Pg187. In the short story, ‘’On The Rainy River’’ by Tim O’Brien, The protagonist faces a difficult life decision, he did not want to conform to society the way others wanted him to. He wanted to keep his personal beliefs. Tim O’Brien does not want to conform no matter how vital it is that he should.
Extroverts can be some of the best people you meet. They have plenty to offer and thrive at the attention of others. However, being introverted can be just as great. In a society where being extroverted is the ideal, it can be very difficult to be an introvert. Susan Cain argues in her Ted Talk, “The Power of Introverts”, that introverts can share many brilliant ideas with the world and should be encouraged and celebrated for who they are.
Conformity is something that humans have been doing for a long time. Such conformity has lead to negative outcomes. This idea is explored through “Harrison Bergeron” by Kurt Vonnegut and “The Unknown Citizen” by W.H. Auden. In these two texts conformity eliminates individuality and causes the society to be weakened.
In The Giver, Lois Lowry shows her readers what it is like to live in a society with no diversity, no color, and no freedom. In this society, there is a twelve-year old boy, named Jonas, who finds the truth about life outside of his community. He does not have the option of choice, and he is stuck in a futuristic world of “sameness”. Jonas’ world is dull, and he wants to change it because it does not have the amazing features and opportunities that he learns about. In this story, Lois Lowry is warning her readers that too much conformity can lead to no freedom and no true happiness.
Conformity is behavior in accordance with socially accepted conventions or standards. Also according to Webster's dictionary social repression is is the act of controlling, subduing or suppressing people, groups and larger social aggregations by interpersonal means. I agree to the greater extent that during the 1950’s were a time of conformity and social repression. In American life housing, genders and culture get an impact on conformity and social repression.
While reading the story, you can tell in the narrators’ tone that she feels rejected and excluded. She is not happy and I’m sure, just like her family, she wonders “why her?” She is rejected and never accepted for who she really is. She is different. She’s not like anyone else
In the book Dancing in the Wings, by Debbie Allen,a girl nicknamed Sassy could see dance everywhere. She always wanted to dance in the spotlight as a ballerina,but everyone said her feet were too big. She was too tall for anyone to dance with. When there was an audition for a summer dance festival in Washington D.C.she tried out for it. Unfortunately, the other girls made fun of her, and she ran into the parking lot.
She’s regretting her decision on marrying Curley, and wishes her life would’ve went as planned. The novel illustrates an image of Candy’s sense of loneliness, and how friendship is only achieved by conversation. The novel illustrates an image of Candy’s sense of loneliness, and how friendship is the only achieved through conversation.
Throughout reading Red Dress, I can compare myself to her in a couple ways and understood what the narrator was implying. High school is a difficult experience and can affect someone emotionally. The young lady had a difficult time in school and handling the tasks that come with it; as do I. “At high school I was never comfortable for a minute”, is a very inspiring and honest quote about school. Adults don’t understand the pressure that school has on someone and than adding the addition public speaking (etc.). “When I was asked a question in class any simple little question at all, my voice was apt to come out squeaky, or else hoarse and trembling.
IRL relationships are sometimes exhausting. They require us to constantly give a good image of ourselves, although this is not always the case. At work, we must always do our job as best possible, to evolve in the company, to get satisfaction from our boss (and prevent him from getting angry with you), and of course our livelihood and to provide needs of our family. With friends, we strive to behave in the most appropriate way possible and relationships can sometimes seem rigid and distant. There are things that we don't allow ourselves to tell (being a NEET for example) because we are afraid to appear as a person too different, too weird, from the point of view of society.