The portrayal and narrative of Spartan women from a non-Spartan standpoint is a mix of both admiration and admonishment. A considerable portion of the critique comes from the fact that Spartan women were fairly different from women in the rest of the Greek world, given that they’d acquired considerable parity with men in their society for their times. From a non-Spartan standpoint, Spartan women are often perceived from a perspective that simultaneously lauds and critiques their position within ancient Greek society.
Their commendable physical prowess and commitment to peak fitness are recognized, reflective of ideals prevalent in Spartan culture. They’re often noted as attractive, outspoken, capable, and fit due to their physical prowess, garnered from years of training during their childhood and adolescence until young adulthood. Scholars and historians, especially from Athens, were often quick to critique Sparta for the freedoms and autonomy it offered women, frequently commenting that Spartan men were given to being ruled by their women. Their economic, financial, and sexual agency was a source of frequent intimidation and slander, even for famed thinkers and philosophers such as Aristotle, who even erroneously attributed the decline of Sparta to the freedoms it accorded to its women.
Their distinct stature in society, ability to inherit property, and the Spartan communal laws that permitted women to take multiple husbands or partners also prompted other Greek statesmen to accuse Spartan women of promiscuity.
The challenges posed by Spartan women and their society at large were rather alien, even to Greek society, which viewed Sparta as an anomaly. Athenians, in particular, found it difficult to comprehend that women were responsible for driving the state's economic activities and independently managing the household because their men handled the majority of these duties while restricting women to doing the usual household chores.
The friction between Spartan and non-Spartan views can be primarily attributed to the independent evolution of Greek societies, which eventually led to the formation of the city-states. Sparta’s militaristic focus and the emphasis on building a society full of both strong men and women led to a commune that not only celebrated femininity but also accorded them numerous privileges and responsibilities to help strengthen the state and their collective future.