While norms exist, there is a reason why it is called the norm. It is because everyone usually does it. Norms and expectations you were supposed to follow in the first place which makes them not so special. Breaking the norm can be great and freeing once you escape the constraints the people of society put on us. Although I loved in the smallest apartments, I was able to attend a great high school where they strived for excellence. Having these positive supporters and role models has pushed me to where I am today. The influences I have had from the many family members, friends, foster parents, caseworkers, and teachers have all helped me break one norm at a time. The first being attending college as a first generation Hispanic male raised by