The Other Wes Moore illustrates the differences in upbringing between two Wes Moores. The differences drastically alter the outcomes of their lives. It is important to analyze the differences between the Wes Moores’ upbringing in order to identify what factors encourage a favorable path. Concepts from the Psychology 1100 Textbook can be used to explain the lives of the two Wes Moores.
Because the son has been so starved, he is willing to do anything to gain some sort of food and increase his lifespan. This can further be explained when the father exclaims “Don’t you recognize me? I’m your father”, this insinuates that the son shouldn’t be harming his father, this explains that to this boy family relationships should be important to his self identity. Nevertheless, with this desperation for food and therefore survival, the son can’t focus on anyone else’s needs, he instead has to neglect all others, including his father despite the assumption he most likely gave every part of his own being to keep his son safe and protected. Another example of food being more important than family is when the main character, Eliezer,
As a young boy, James had a very happy life with his siblings and his parents until his father left the family without notice. James’s mother remarried twice and this put the household in an
This significantly affected the choices she made -- especially during the formative years of twelve and thirteen years old. Consequently, her understanding of social and moral values deviated from societal norms. This paper is an exploration of the pathway effects caused by lack of familial support and how Jules addiction created a milieu that leads to Baby being ostracised by society. Suggestions are offered to alleviate their struggles.
He got two times the amount of bread due to his father being dead. His father died a hard death and his biggest fear had come. He became a selfish person because he had been helping other people and doing things for other people all of his life.
Gilbert’s sibling subsystem overlaps with a parental subsystem imparted upon him as principal caretaker of Arnie. According to Goldenberg, Stanton, and Goldenberg (2017), the system boundaries current in enmeshed families lack differentiation, strength, and cross easily amongst subsystems. The potential exists for children to embrace the parent role, while parental control may be ineffective (Goldenberg et al., 2017). The Grape sibling, more specifically Gilbert, partake in the parental role for both Arnie and Bonnie.
Jared’s lack of affection in his childhood reflects his personal values, causing to wonder if he really is valued as a son. He was neglected as a child and grew up in an environment that promoted dishonesty and deception. The lack of presence leads him to begin growing independent from his parents. Moreover, Jared’s soft-heartedness and his witful grasp on
She was reading angry at her brother because he destroys the family making the parent suffer emotional and mental. She explains how the brother addiction turns her house outside down with this attitude. However, the brother addiction makes the parents to never give up on him even though his negative behavior toward them. Parents love him unconditional because it was their son. Even though he was not on the best path, they still support him and be on his side because they believe that he can change.
For example, when Paul tries out for a soccer team, when Paul told on the Tangerine Middle School students, and when Paul told on Erik. The choices made by Paul, and the consequences of those choices affect the development of his character. One of the decisions Paul makes is to tryout for the Lake Windsor School soccer team. The tryouts
For example, John’s father was an alcoholic and constantly wanted John to follow in his footsteps of working as he did. As John grew into a young adult he caught onto some of his dad's habits like drinking alcohol and cursing. “ ‘Let’s face it,’’ John said. “ ‘ Everyone curses’.” John used alcohol, cursing, and misbehaving at school as a way to cope and hide from his struggles.
Family structure talks about family arrangement and composition which includes the roles and interactions (Edelman, 2014). According to Minuchin (2012), the family structural theory emphasis on the important of the family structure and its changes that occurs and how the individuals in the family relate collectively over time to put up and accept each other. Minuchin says further that a well-functioning family will choose how to solve and handle the family experience with a positive outcome. The goal of a structural family is to express the strengths in each other in critical moments, and helping each other through it. Developmental theory is the methods used as the viewpoint of family tasking and development through phases of life (Edelman, 2014).
Family is one of the most important parts of life growing up. A strong family is what growing children need to be successful and have a bright future. Growing up in a family that is weak, does not have strong family ties and is violent leads to problems for the children and the parents, which is seen in Hillbilly Elegy and Evicted. Violence in families can affect children greatly, it can lead to second generations of poor communication between spouses and can be overall unhealthy for those living in that environment. J.D. Vance is immensely affected by his mother 's violent outbursts and multiple relationships.
He explains before how he was close to his stepfather and even considered him to be his real father. Not only did he refrain from keeping his grades up and doing good in school, but he deliberately started doing wrong. For example, “I snatched purses. I shoplifted. I even robbed a petty drug dealer once.”
It was there morbidity. This was the real issue between us as it had been between her and my father,”(45). James’s mother is desperate to cure her son of his lies, so much as she doesn’t realize that she is hurting him. James’s mother is distraught and is upset with the fact that he is an outsider and unlike his other siblings. Because his mother does not understand his problem James is yearning to get away from her and find out who he can be without being under the influence of her.
Novelist, Eric Schlosser, in his novel, “Fast Food Nation”, expresses how fast food has spread. Schlosser’s purpose is to make us see how addicted we are to fast food. He adopts a shocking tone through the use of diction, Logos, and diction in order to get people to make better choices. For starters, one of the strategies that Schlosser used in this text is diction. Diction can be defined as style of speaking or writing determined by the choice of words by a speaker /writer.