Relationships: The Pros And Cons Of Dating

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Relationships, where do you begin? First thing you have to ask yourself is if you want to date someone similar to you or someone who is completely different then you. For me, my ideal man is someone who is like me but not exactly like me. I want someone who I can be myself around right off the bat. Someone who doesn’t care about my over powering personality but also will tell me when I need to settle down and take a break. So I like the person in the middle of similar and opposite. But what if you want someone who is very similar to you or someone who is the complete opposite then you. What and how do you even begin? I am no relationship expert but I have had my share of dating both similar and opposite and this is what I can tell you about what I have gone through. The pros and cons of dating your similar is easy, you won’t be pushed out of your comfort zone and you don’t have to worry about not being yourself around him or her at all times. The only thing you …show more content…

The pros are that you will experience things that you have never done before and testing your limits/ comfort zone. You may realize that you like to do thing you never thought you would like to do. But the cons are that with having different personalities, you will have to be more willing to back off and let him or her speak their mind. Also with having different personalities comes things that you might not like that he or she might like to do. You will either have to learn to expect it or not expect it and move on from him or her. Meeting, dating, and comfort zones are three of the most important things to a relationship. If you’re not willing to meet someone then who will you date someone? This paper will talk about how to meet someone similar to you and someone who is different then you. Then how will dating them go and finally how will your comfort zone be after you find someone like you or opposite then