Definition Essay About Dating

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Dating is a part of the human mating process where two people, either male or female, meet socially for companionship. With the aim of assessing the others suitability as a partner, in an intimate relationship or marriage. Usually these interactions and assessments are made in a social setting or activity. The protocols and practices of dating, and the terms used to describe it, vary considerably from country to country and over time. The most common idea is two people trying out a relationship and exploring whether they are compatible. They usually start by going out together in public as a couple who may or may not yet be having sexual relations. This period of courtship is sometimes seen as a precursor to engagement or marriage depending …show more content…

If a girl dates, she is seen in a better light by other girlfriends because she is exclusively with someone. For a guy to hook up, his friends will high five and congratulate him on a job well done. A girl sometimes gets this reaction from her friends, but some of the time she will get dirty looks and be called a slut. These types of reactions are seen as normal to the bigger population on campus and a lot of the people shared the same viewpoint. It was interesting to me how a man could be sexually promiscuous and be praised for it but when a female tries to be she is shamed and made out to be a horrible …show more content…

In Cosmo there was one article that talked about the 20 body language sign that meant a guy was into you. Reading it, I felt like some things were true or made sense while others were just ridiculous. Some of the normal signs that a guy would be into you would be that he leans toward you when you talk. In a noisy bar, this sign might not hold much weight. But when he can physically hear you perfectly well and leans in anyway, it means he's interested in what you have to say and you, in general. Another sign would be that he touches your knee, or tucks your hair behind your ear. When he initiates physical contact under the guise of another reason, it's a test to see how you respond to his touch. Because touch is a tool he uses to test your limits, it could mean he's only interested in sex. If he really likes you, though, he might pull back extra-slowly and smile sweetly as he does it, which means he wants to take the time to get closer to you. One of the more ridiculous signs would be that he touches his throat. The throat represents communication and vulnerability. If he reaches up to touch it during your interaction, he's interested in you and worried about making a good impression. But again, context can play a role here. If you're talking to ‘Mr. Slick’, a throat touch could signal dishonesty. Another ridiculous sign would