Family, to me, is about trust. When I think about family, I think about people that I can trust and that trust me.
You wouldn 't trust a random stranger with your baby, would you? Would you trust a friend? Possibly, but illusion I 'll go over that later. There 's just something different about a family member. A good family member, that is. For example, what if you had a mother that never believed anything you said, or one that back stabs you and loses your trust? Relations would tighten. If you trusted your mother, like people normally do, it would most likely lead to a healthy relationship, at least between the two of you.
I think for the most part that remains true in my family, and I say for the most part because sometimes
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I feel that I would have a much healthier relationship if there was more trust in my household. If we all learned to get along, and simply learn to believe in each other. Family is what you 're stuck with, you only get one. You can easily cut ties with friends. All you need to do is avoid them and not talk to them anymore. Cutting ties with family involves moving out, and forgetting they ever existed. The human brain, by now, has probably developed some sort of thing where it prioritizes family over friends, as that has been the way many people think for a while now. All of a sudden hating a family member changes the way your brain thinks, because it had become so accumulated to loving them, to …show more content…
Going back to what I said earlier, friends can be family as long as you can believe that you completely trust them. Knowing who to stick with after high school/college is key. After school, I turns more every-man-for-himself than ever before. A true good friend worthy of being considered family will still stick by your side and won 't screw you over after all is said and done.
These are my reasons and examples. I hope I have educated people about what family is. Many families are dysfunctional and have problems, one of them being trust. I 'm just going to say this... If someone in your family is lying to you, back stabbing you, using you to their advantage, then you may want to consider if they are