What is happiness, how to be happy, am I happy, to be happy I need ... Many of these questions and requests can be found via web. The question I found is Do the answers about happiness work to you? If not, why not?
Yet I found it like normal to start searching for the happiness and take courses about How to become happy. It is funny to read hundreds of comments... often like: »... it works, but need to work hard..«. Regarding to such answers it seems like this Life isn't easy at all.
Seems like we need to struggle a lot and to dig deep in any area of our lifes. Many of you did succeed and find the way to feel positive in any time. The others are still pursuing for the happiness.
Surely there are thousands of ways that leads towards pure
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Is it really so difficult? If yes, then why there are lots of people mastering happiness and do not find any difficulties on their approach?
What if all this searching and pursuing is a crap? Not that it doesn't work, but there way too much investments to gain what we want. We can presuppose that happiness is not a goal, not even a feeling. It is not conditioned by gaining material things and it is not a consequence of the abundance. We can't have it, neither possess it. Now, let's just say the happiness Is or Is not.
What do we get we this assumption? Comparing the two life stages, one from the early beginning, while we where a child and second from this period, we can easily realized huge changes. It was back then when we didn't feel responsibilities, when we exactly knew what we want (want to do, to be, to have) and what we don't. But then something happens (actually it was happening every day) ... and after several years we forgot what we want, who we are or what we want to do. Some people say the environment changed
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There is no need to run far away and escape the present situation. I like the way of imagination. What's this?
Well, the main idea is to bring out the picture of our early beginnings and to settle it in the present. I agree that this mean a giant change. And according to this we need a giant leverage (great motivation). We Must be sure about making a change no matter what. There is no place for excuses and there is no place for I'll do it tomorrow.
We need to imagine where our life is leading us ... in next 10, 30 years comparing to trends of last 10, 30 years (*).
Based on this imagination we need to find out how it was in our childhood (when we exactly know what and where) so that we create a connection with our innerself (subconscious hidden knowledge) and then find the leverage that helps to remove all the material know as »noninner patterns«.
We remember happiness from the early beginnings. That was a real happiness (unconditioned, for no-reason). Then we made it dirty, so dirty that it became unrecognized. It is enough to clean it, not to start searching it all around the world. Start not to search, but to clean